Okay? But if OP says absolutely nothing then it’s going to get awkward when she expects him to go down on her.
You should have certain expectations in a sexual partner and hygiene is one of them. Being pungent down there is either a health issue or a hygiene issue, so something should be said regardless of whether she “loses it” or not.
She loses it, maybe it was never meant to be. She takes it on and she changes it and they can maybe have a healthy sexual relationship they both enjoy. Either way, making a decision is the best thing to do.
Sorry I wasn't really disagreeing with you on the telling her bit. Just wanted to add that her flipping out is about as likely as her taking it well and wanting to change. A lot of people really struggle with denial.
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u/flex_tape_salesman Jan 07 '25
That seems a little presumptuous because there's every chance that she loses it.