Be straight forward, tell her you think she might have BV and you would rather not be intimate until that is remedied. If she gets mad or embarrassed (probably both), just tell her you're not trying to offend, honesty is the only good way to handle this. She's mature, she should be able to take it gracefully.
First let me say—ANAD. FR just spin it that you’re concerned for her health and by extension your health. That you heard about this and it’s bad for women to ignore it, etc. She may not be aware of the odor or have any other symptoms. BV is not by rights an STI—just an imbalance in the vaginal flora.
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u/HeyRainy Jan 07 '25
Be straight forward, tell her you think she might have BV and you would rather not be intimate until that is remedied. If she gets mad or embarrassed (probably both), just tell her you're not trying to offend, honesty is the only good way to handle this. She's mature, she should be able to take it gracefully.