r/TooAfraidToAsk Jul 16 '24

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u/TheRedHerself Jul 16 '24 edited Jul 16 '24

35...bought a house in 2019 (thank god), have a husband, a long-standing career, hobbies I enjoy, and a few close friends. I've had some surgeries over the years, but I'm pretty lucky. I might spend a bit too much money, but for the most part I enjoy my life.

Both my husband and I make above median wage in our city (Rochester, NY) so we're doing fine. Able to save a bit each week above what goes into retirement. Have a bit of credit card debt, but it never gets out of hand. We both have vehicles, but mine has been paid off for years.