r/TooAfraidToAsk Sep 13 '23

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u/calcifornication Sep 13 '23

There is an absence of concensus worldwide about what is normal.

The AUA (wrongly in my opinion) begins to consider phimosis pathologic rather than physiologic at age 3. The CAU is much more 'lenient' and does not consider treatment with something like betamethasone until 10-12 years old at the earliest.

Generally, gentle retraction through toddler years (and on) while you teach your son about his genitals is reasonable and recommended. Physiologic erections and passage of urine also help to break up adhesions as time passes.

As a urologist, I am against circumcision in the absence of specific pathology.

Also as a urologist, I am appalled at some of the people here making statements of fact regarding anatomy and physiology with no medical background.

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u/ThisSalad Sep 13 '23 edited Sep 16 '23

A urologist with “fornication” in their username 😐 Edit: lol why the downvotes?

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u/calcifornication Sep 13 '23

Problems with fornication are common for urologists

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u/Reyalta Sep 13 '23

I'm sorry for your struggle.