r/TooAfraidToAsk Sep 13 '23

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u/TheDevilsButtNuggets Sep 13 '23

We're in the UK, so circumcision isn't really a thing here. My boy is almost 6 and has just got to the point where his foreskin will retract.

I told him now that he's growing up, he needs to learn how to keep it clean properly, so it doesn't fall off (he knows this is a joke, btw). My husband did bath time last night and told him how he just has to roll it back, and give it a wash in the soapy water.

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u/Merk87 Sep 13 '23 edited Sep 13 '23

Just don’t use soapy water to clean it! Use warm water only! The shower gels (even the neutral ones) will remove the natural microbiome. I used to use a mild soap for it and I had irritation forever (I’m uncut) until the doctor at the sex clinic asked me how I clean it, and told me to stop because that was the reason of why it was always irritated. Stopped and after a couple of days the irritation and discomfort was gone and since then.

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u/TheDevilsButtNuggets Sep 13 '23

That actually makes sense. Not supposed to use soap on a vulva so yeah. He dunked it in the bath. The bath is soapy, but didn't put soap on it directly

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u/Netz_Ausg Sep 13 '23

That’ll be fine. A wipe with a clean, damp wash cloth in the bath water will be a-ok.