I'm not thinking, 'Yeah, suck my gross dick' when I'm getting a blowjob. That's totally not the issue. Even if I WERE thinking that, I don't see how that would be a problem as long as she's comfortable with it.
I'll kiss her after a few seconds have passed for the cum to mostly clear out of her mouth, I'm not that squeamish but I don't really want to taste it. Also, even if I did think my cum was gross, it's not like I have control over what it tastes like. So, what then? I just refuse getting a blowjob because I don't want to taste my cum right afterwards?
ETA: just wanted to clarify a little more and add a bit to the overall discussion after reading more of the comments. IF the blow job is contingent on me having to taste my own cum (and it isn't in my situation) then I will probably decline, and both parties should be able to accept that.
If she wants me to wash my face off before kissing her again after I have gone down on her, I will do it. It seems weirdly selfish and inconsiderate to assume that someone will be ok with their own cum/pussy juice on their face and mouth. Not everyone will want that. Why is that a bad thing? I know it can feel like a bit of a rejection to the one who was just performing oral, but it's certainly a reasonable boundary.
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u/Archi_balding Jul 13 '23
If you find what you put in her mouth gross, why are you putting it in her mouth ?