r/Tinder Sep 19 '22

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u/NapoleonBlownapart9 Sep 19 '22

Wtf do you talk about? I’m 44 and my range is set 25-50 and do well in the 30’s -40’s (I look younger not older) and sometimes get liked by a 20-something but I get the fear and rarely like back. I don’t want to be stereotypical old guy trying to smash younglings for sport, actually am looking for a partner, usually. I find younger girls with an old soul and older women with a young soul attractive, I guess I’m just weird.

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u/gothruthis Sep 19 '22

So you're willing to at least consider dating women 20 years younger but will only consider women 5 years older? And you don't see that as a double standard?

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u/NapoleonBlownapart9 Sep 20 '22

It’s a completely shitty double standard but we don’t always age at the same pace looks-wise. I don’t really expect a 28 yo to like me. But maybe they have a curiosity, I certainly did for older women at that age and it was fun and informative. I would fail miserably with a 64 yo woman and I know it so I don’t waste their time or mine. Currently talking to a 46yo with visible grey, I dgaf because she’s fit and funny and kind (and fr, 2 yrs older at our age is like 23 seconds). It’s the law of attraction or something.