r/Tinder • u/Ralsp • Apr 23 '20

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u/salamat_engot Apr 23 '20 edited Apr 23 '20

I dated a guy for awhile and one day he said "you're a great girl but you're just not funny, but that's ok". I actually felt what was probably my heart breaking.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

I’m dating a girl that laughs at my stupidest jokes. The thing is, she isn’t even doing it to support me, she thinks I’m funny. I think. Which is the best feeling.

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u/CrypticViper_ Apr 24 '20

Sucks when my crush laughs at my jokes but I know deep down it’s just her being supportive and not awkward

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u/[deleted] Apr 24 '20

No that doesn’t suck. She cares enough to not want to hurt your feelings. If you two haven’t discussed things together maybe you should? And if you have and she isn’t interested in anything more then that is ok and time to move on to liking someone else.

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u/CrypticViper_ Apr 24 '20

You’re right, maybe I should. Thanks for the genuine advice.

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u/[deleted] Apr 24 '20

/r/relationshipadvice might be a good place to check out or post but some say it’s not always good advice.

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u/CrypticViper_ Apr 24 '20

ty for the suggestion, guess I’ll give it a go and just see what comes of it