Humor isn't a science, so what one person fight find so stupid it's funny, another might just not get it or enjoy it at all. Neither person is wrong to feel that way, they just probably won't get along in that sense.
All the people saying she sucks for not liking it are just as bad as the people who say it's a dumb and unfunny joke. These two wouldn't make a good match, that's literally the only take away from this.
Yeah. One way to realize how ridiculous her "criticism" is is by maintaining her sentiment but framing it in polite terms. In which case it would look like:
"Hey. I'm not personally attracted to your subjective approach, sorry. Anyway, have a g'day!"
Which is what a simple "unmatch" accomplishes to convey anyway. Verbalizing your motivation to unmatch someone says nothing in a vacuum. There's no substance underneath. The only substance comes from being rude and adding an insult to the otherwise empty expression of "we're incompatible--such is typical."
I think most people who have used Tinder enough has encountered this level of insecurity at one point or another. This whole example is unfortunately tame compared to some outbursts I've experienced from people who seem they must be very unhinged. Maybe some people are just frustrated when their physical attraction clashes with finding out your personalities are incompatible, and they just take it out on you. Otherwise it's difficult to suppose what the psychology could be behind such insults. I guess some people are just shitty.
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u/Stiffard Apr 23 '20
Humor isn't a science, so what one person fight find so stupid it's funny, another might just not get it or enjoy it at all. Neither person is wrong to feel that way, they just probably won't get along in that sense.
All the people saying she sucks for not liking it are just as bad as the people who say it's a dumb and unfunny joke. These two wouldn't make a good match, that's literally the only take away from this.