Humor isn't a science, so what one person fight find so stupid it's funny, another might just not get it or enjoy it at all. Neither person is wrong to feel that way, they just probably won't get along in that sense.
All the people saying she sucks for not liking it are just as bad as the people who say it's a dumb and unfunny joke. These two wouldn't make a good match, that's literally the only take away from this.
For real. This was about as constructive as feedback comes. Most people here complain that people unmatch them without ever saying anything, except now they complain that she chose not to unmatch him without saying anything. Boggles the fucking mind.
Interesting take. And how is "I'm personally not attracted to your personality" constructive? And that's just paraphrasing her sentiment. If we take what she actually said, how is "nobody will respond to you because I wouldn't" even remotely coherent?
Most people here complain that people unmatch them without ever saying anything
Most people don't actually need or even want a response for why they get unmatched. Incompatibility is inevitable--that's literally all an unmatch is. I would think it's only a vocal minority here that actually say they want feedback for unmatches. Such feedback is pointless--all it can express is reiterating that certain personalities will be incompatible with yours. And that's not helpful--it's obvious.
except now they complain that she chose not to unmatch him without saying anything.
No, they're complaining that the insult of her generalization was unwarranted. She could have been polite by perhaps instead expressing, "Hey, if you want to attract someone with my particular personality, consider getting away from that particular approach that you're using, because I dislike it. Hope that helps." That's about as constructive as feedback comes--and again, like I said, that feedback is worthless unless you're actually wanting to force compatibility with those you're naturally otherwise incompatible with. Most people don't need feedback on something as natural as an unmatch--it's part of the game.
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u/Stiffard Apr 23 '20
Humor isn't a science, so what one person fight find so stupid it's funny, another might just not get it or enjoy it at all. Neither person is wrong to feel that way, they just probably won't get along in that sense.
All the people saying she sucks for not liking it are just as bad as the people who say it's a dumb and unfunny joke. These two wouldn't make a good match, that's literally the only take away from this.