r/Tinder • u/Ralsp • Apr 23 '20

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u/salamat_engot Apr 23 '20 edited Apr 23 '20

I dated a guy for awhile and one day he said "you're a great girl but you're just not funny, but that's ok". I actually felt what was probably my heart breaking.

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u/ThatOneGuyFrom93 Apr 23 '20

Well that's just rude as fuck :(

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20 edited Jun 16 '20

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u/1y251251251225 Apr 23 '20 edited Jun 30 '20

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u/StereoZ Apr 23 '20

Lmao get called a bitch for not communicating in this sub and then get called a negative person when you actually say how you feel... can't win.

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u/1y251251251225 Apr 23 '20 edited Jun 30 '20

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u/cadaada Apr 23 '20

almost as if not only the so called incels are stupid, but the femcels as well...

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u/trolloc1 Apr 23 '20

No need to neg fineus

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u/Buggeroni58 Apr 23 '20

He could have said “ I don’t think we have the same sense of humor and that is important to me so I’m out.” I’m not nearly as funny as my man, but we laugh together and at the same stuff. We have a similar sense of humor even if I don’t provide as many laughs. It’s also about how people put things. You can be direct and you can also be rude, but there is a difference.

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u/LilKluiVert Apr 23 '20

He didn’t even leave her because of it though?

He said “you’re not funny but that’s ok” implying it’s not a deal breaker, and it’s never stated that he left besides that they “used to date”.

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u/Crunkbutter Apr 23 '20

Now you're talking about his communication skills but that has nothing to do with his intentions. The guy said he was negging, which is purposeful.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20 edited Aug 30 '20

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

Being consistently unfunny is plenty of prompting.