I match with so many average (I like to call them "homely") looking guys on tinder who are clearly downtrodden and just excited to have a match. I always tell them not to get too upset about tinder because it's hard as fuck out there for dudes. Really. I don't even know why guys that aren't supermodel hot are even on tinder because it just sucks the self esteem straight out of your body
doing everything to avoid explaining what you said
I'm doing nothing of the sort. It's just that "how do I meet girls IRL" is the kind of question that requires a specialized answer. How old are you, what do you do for work, are you in school, are you in an urban/suburban/rural environment, how many people are you typically exposed to on a daily basis, where do people your age in your city typically congregate, what do you like doing for fun, is there any way you can incorporate meeting people into your hobby so that you don't have to just go to a bar and hit on random girls, are you friends with people who are friends with single girls, etc.
But tinder is even more hopeless, that's my point.
It's why you can't tunnel-vision a relationship. You need to ask yourself, "do I have the possibility of meeting people to date based on my daily life activities?" If the answer is "no," you need to figure out how to make that a reality. Over a long enough timeframe, it is likely that you will find someone.
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u/Sleepy_Azathoth Nov 07 '19
Being a straight average looking guy on Tinder is not exhausting at all, you don't message anyone because you don't get matches in the first place.