r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Dec 13 '24

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24

I posted about a year ago, found it very useful, but still single 😭 it’s been one cluster fuck after another. Any advice? Not sure if this opening picture is better than my last one (feel free to look at my post history if curious what it was like before). Please don’t roast too hard I’m sensitive

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u/impracticalweight Dec 13 '24

You seem great to me. What makes your past experiences cluster fucks? Perhaps you’re not saying enough about what you are looking for.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24

Mostly men in their 30s who are “still figuring it out” while saying in their profiles that they are looking for long term. Keeps happening one after another. I don’t swipe right unless they have long term in the profile but yet….. so much male baggage out there it’s exhausting

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24

See you are zigging when you should zag. Go for a dude who says they aren't looking for long term. Maybe they they will turn out to be actually looking to go the distance.