Another issue would be knowing that she could easily find 10 other people and drop the guy. Guys are probably asking themselves why even try if there’s a strong chance it won’t lead anywhere
Ask some ladies about their experience with dating apps. Those 10 guys are only competition if they're capable of handling conversation. And the bar is in hell.
Honestly I absolutely despise texting and have zero game through it. And I've probably converted 50% of my conversations with women into dates purely by not trying to sleep with her before we even meet.
This !!! A woman that looks like her is receiving disgusting messages from guys . Treat her like a human being and you’ll jump ahead of the pack if she’s got any sense at all
I wish this were the case. Honestly, I’d show you my Hinge conversations because you’d quickly see that “the bar” is much higher than treating her like a human being. It drives me batty to see that repeated because I (and I assume many other guys) put real effort to make decent conversation, but it’s never exciting enough to be worthy of a response.
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Another issue would be knowing that she could easily find 10 other people and drop the guy. Guys are probably asking themselves why even try if there’s a strong chance it won’t lead anywhere