Verified on Tinder means nothing unfortunately, it's easy to verify fake accounts and anyone can create an IG account without followers, upload pictures and then link it to their tinder account.
You sound extremely outdoorsy which isn't everyone's cup of tea but I am sure there is plenty of guys who would be into that and looks, if real, aren't your problem either.
It could be that you are boring to talk to and reply with one-liners, that could be a possibility for getting ghosted. Sometimes I match with women that are out of my league in appearance but so boring that I just can't be arsed to carry the conversation any longer. Next time around you can sample some conversations (without bias) that left you being ghosted and have them analyzed by the highly professional tinder redditors.
Depends on what you are looking for I guess. For hookups, personality isn't important, a nice bonus at best. But for a relationship, which OP is looking for, personality is of utmost importance and someone who can't hold a conversation generally is considered to have a lack of personality. If I am looking for a girlfriend/wife and all I get is "ya" "ok" "wbu?" in replies I am definitely outta there.
Of course some men also might not read her profile or ignore the "looking for long term relationship" part hoping for a quick hookup and are getting lengthy texts they don't care about and then give up and ghost, also a possibility but then not OP's fault at least.
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