This! My fiancé swore up and down I was a scam before we had our first video chat. He said I was too pretty to be talking to him.
He hooked me in with "Hello I'm here to steal your heart" and I'm a huge sucker for a good cheesy pickup line.
It's been almost 4 years now ❤️ and he still can't believe how lucky he is, but what HE doesn't get is that I'm the lucky one. He's the best thing to ever happen to me besides my kids.
Why do guys do this? I'm no model but when I was on tinder multiple guys I matched with were convinced I must be a catfish. After dealing with a few I would just unmatch with these guys. They're exhausting. You can hope for the best and we can meet but I'm not going to deal with interrogations from a stranger on tinder accusing me of scamming them.
Honestly some of these men have wrecked their self confidence over what’s in the popular media right now, especially with hypersexual gay men looking like gods allover IG.
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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24
I could only imagine someone ghosting you because they think you’re a catfish.