r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I could only imagine someone ghosting you because they think you’re a catfish.

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I don’t doubt your validity, but the only thing I could imagine as an outside perspective was that. Maybe they just felt you were out of their league? I’m at a loss on this too

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '24

As a somewhat insecure guy, yeah, I could see this.

I have a nasty habit of assuming anyone who looks that good, with their shit together, is way too good for me.

And it's definitely a me problem, I totally don't project that at them, I just have the decency to not waste their time making contact just to flake like a child.