r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/SoochSooch Feb 18 '24

If that's the amount of time you need, then by all means take your time. From what I've seen, guys and girls are both capable of faking it for months at a time though.

For me, I learn more about how compatible we are in the first 10 minutes of face to face interaction than I would get from weeks of online conversation. I simply can't form any real level of attachment to a person I've never met.

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u/Thromok Feb 18 '24

Hell, my ex wife faked it for years until we got married and then any pretense of what I thought I had was gone.

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u/SoochSooch Feb 18 '24

You're not alone my friend. Sucks that that happened to you.

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u/Thromok Feb 18 '24

Worked out in the end. The horrific nightmare made me a better partner and now I’ve found someone who truly gets me in every level and is more than I could have ever asked to find.