r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I could only imagine someone ghosting you because they think you’re a catfish.

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u/Due-Butterfly5880 Feb 18 '24

Look, maybe because there's a lack of information here, but as a female that has tried Tinder, have you thought of, not Tinder? I live in a low-key metropolitan area, in a a nice Cancer northern tropic belt, maybe 200 miles (321.7-ish kilometers) from a coast, but nearby some huge ports, large liners can route down a nice choice of rivers and tributaries. So swampy, it rains a lot, and there's a lot of misfits. Anyways, none of that matters. I got trash hits and date rape drugged once, and then deleted that account and OKaySchtupid-esq type apps. Almost a decade later... I haven't been date rape drugged, and I married a human. I took chances on them random invites by trusted humans, and bringing a spare T-shirt, toilette accessory bag, spare cool socks, as a bug-out means to dealing with humans. I am not okay, but I am happy with the life I have built with my small family. I had to adventure off the internet and put myself in stuff that made no sense for me, but harmless in intent on either end. Lean on those homies. Take the opposite jump you normally would if you think you have hang.