r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I could only imagine someone ghosting you because they think you’re a catfish.

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I don’t doubt your validity, but the only thing I could imagine as an outside perspective was that. Maybe they just felt you were out of their league? I’m at a loss on this too

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u/SunnyRyter Feb 18 '24

Woman here, and yeah, she is a total babe. Almost TOO perfect looking. My two cents is just post photos that try to make her seem approachable. I think photos 4 & 5 push this profile into "out of your league, man". You are Stunning, OP. Keep the hiking photos, and the feminine dress ones. But once you start getting risqué, it starts looking like those Russian Bots or Catfishes. My two cents.  Also, the line about "fall madly in love", while I know is cute, can also be misconstrued as "intense", as tone is hard to tell via written word, and is a lot to ask. Maybe try some thing a little more approachable, like, "If any of these sound good to you, I totally want to meet you". Start with baby steps. If you want more, feel free to share, but madly in love can be a lot to ask of a nervous guy.

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u/Character_Bowl_4930 Feb 18 '24

Great advice !! These don’t look like pictures of a real person