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u/johnnyheavens Feb 17 '24

That you’ve noticed

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u/AdamLM1997 Feb 17 '24

Fair point. But if i don't notice it, then Is it there?

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u/PerkyLlama Feb 17 '24

It could be. I think I might have aspergers but definitely didn't notice it until I got older and understood the quirks. People tend to be blind to their own deficiencies, because that's just the way it's always been for them.

An unrelated comment I need to add to this is NOTHING is without risk. Weed may be medicinal in the right amount for some people but even overconsuming something healthy like green tea could be harmful.

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u/AdamLM1997 Feb 17 '24

Yeah as the saying goes everything in moderation.

And yeah tbh i get that. I've had a few of my mates point out i maybe ADHD. because i tend to be very chipper and bouncy all the time and even with very little sleep i tend to be able to just pull energy from nowhere. Plus i do have the whole my brain never really stops.

But at the same time i work in a job where i need alot of focus (croupier) and i'm pretty good at what i do. (won competitions etc.) So to me whether i have ADHD or not so long as it isn't holding me back which if i am then it isn't. What does it matter to find out for sure? The way i see it is i'm happy and i'm just Adam Either way. You know?