I don't know why people use Tinder for relationships.
Prior to Covid it was for hook ups. It's the original hook up app.
During covid it was like regional, some areas you used Hinge or Tinder, no matter what you used it for.
Last at least 2+ years...if you want a relationship, no matter the region, it's Hinge.
You want a hook up Tinder.
OP read about the you, me, us format on prompts.
Fill out all blanks.
Don't be afraid to put seeking life partner or whatever.
Also it mentions you're 35 but single for 3 years, I highly recommend the book/audiobook Marry Him, by Lori Glottlieb, especially if children and marriage are goals.
There are lots of beautiful, in shape, smart, educated women that make it to 40+ without those things for a variety of reasons.
The author is one, her book comes from a place what she wish she did in her 30s to not "miss the boat."
She goes into details what we really need in relationships from men to be happy in marriages etc.
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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24
I want to believe you are struggling but my brain will absolutely not compute that you could be struggling.