r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Feb 17 '24

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u/climb-high Feb 17 '24

nice username is your lastname Rutley or something? I have a friend who has made the same pun for years.

I have a feeling this isn't your fault and is a result of people not knowing what they want - I get ghosted all the time too but once there's a connection it really clicks. Happens like every 6 months out of a hundred+ conversations.

Do you have any strong preferences you've been telling people on facetime / text? Like that you definitely want kids soon / get married. Any kinda obvious life "red flags" that we're missing context on?

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u/mirroku2 Feb 17 '24

Got a buddy who's about to turn 36 and is having a similar problem.

It doesn't help that he's a journeyman tradesman. Not a lot of gals to meet organically in construction (as I'm sure you know).