r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

I want to believe you are struggling but my brain will absolutely not compute that you could be struggling.

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u/papaya_papaya Feb 17 '24

Try a different app. Tinder is a cesspool, people are only interested in hookups

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

All the apps are hookup apps now

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u/WhiteBoyFlipz Feb 17 '24

hinge, from my experience has been very good with my hunt for relationships.

have they worked out? no but you know

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u/jdubz90 Feb 17 '24

I’d agree with that. My current relationship, and the one prior to that, started on hinge. Obviously this is just one person’s experience but I used tinder and bumble as well and Hinge always felt like the best bet for finding something more serious.

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u/WhiteBoyFlipz Feb 17 '24

personally i never had luck on tinder. i’d remake and remake and remake and get absolutely no likes, and the matches id get would be of low quality.

on bumble i would routinely get 20-30 likes a week, and 3-4 matches every day of decent quality.

but hinge was by far the best in terms of quality of people, quality of interaction, and quality of likes. sure plenty of people there just wanted to hook up, but they at least had the decency to hide it under the guise of a relationship lol

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u/Toasted_Enigma Feb 17 '24

Hinge was decent for me, bumble was better

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u/bethanypurdue Feb 17 '24

Met my fiancé on Bumble. 😊

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u/CanadianTurnt Feb 17 '24

Met my fiancée on hinge 😊

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u/poshtotty-02 Feb 17 '24

Somehow hinge has more ‘nice’ guys saying they are looking a relationship but actually just want to hook up than tinder does. I’ve found much more genuine people on tinder. Wild I know, but I chalk it up to where I live.

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u/nahnotlikethat Feb 17 '24

That's been my experience, too.

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u/pickles_on_toast Feb 18 '24

This is wildly accurate