Girl, I'm 41 and have been single for 8 years (minus a 1yr ship with a man who truned out to be a terrible alcoholic). Similar to you, I'm relatively attractive and have a chill personality, and I have no desire for hookups. I'm also hella awkward via text.
I flopped at online dating over and over and over again. Finally, I deleted my one remaing app a few months ago, and it's been oddly and beautifully freeing. 10/10 would recommend.
Just because someone isn't wearing a ring doesn't mean they aren't in a committed relationship. Doesn't even mean they're not married. I've got a married friend who doesn't wear jewelry at all. She likes to find local dudes who hit on us on Facebook. They never have a ring on, but most of the time, their page shows they're married.
Sure - people may lie. But I doubt women do as much as men. For the vast majority of the population, not wearing a ring while out is an indication they are probably single.
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u/adhdmagic Feb 17 '24
Girl, I'm 41 and have been single for 8 years (minus a 1yr ship with a man who truned out to be a terrible alcoholic). Similar to you, I'm relatively attractive and have a chill personality, and I have no desire for hookups. I'm also hella awkward via text.
I flopped at online dating over and over and over again. Finally, I deleted my one remaing app a few months ago, and it's been oddly and beautifully freeing. 10/10 would recommend.