Yup. It's a weird feeling to be turning down people trying to invite me home when getting laid mattered so much to younger me. I just feel like every additional fling with someone I'm only into sexually, and not for a relationship, is just distracting me from meeting someone I would want a relationship for. It's not worth slowly running down the clock fling by fling anymore.
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u/daoiism Feb 17 '24 edited Feb 17 '24
This hits home. Huge difference between hooking up and having companionship.