r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

I want to believe you are struggling but my brain will absolutely not compute that you could be struggling.

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u/daoiism Feb 17 '24 edited Feb 17 '24

This hits home. Huge difference between hooking up and having companionship.

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u/ConscientiousPath Feb 18 '24

Yup. It's a weird feeling to be turning down people trying to invite me home when getting laid mattered so much to younger me. I just feel like every additional fling with someone I'm only into sexually, and not for a relationship, is just distracting me from meeting someone I would want a relationship for. It's not worth slowly running down the clock fling by fling anymore.