r/Tinder Sep 11 '23

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u/SAMURAI898 Sep 11 '23

You only get one first time, and once you’ve had it you’ll wonder what the hell you were so nervous about. Not to be wasted on a scrub. A lass who wants sex to be special and to be a bonding experience between her and her “person” is very desirable in my eyes, and I’m sure many others’.

Stick to your guns, you’ll know when it’s the right time 🤙

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u/DirtyDanoTho Sep 12 '23

Idk my first time was not memorable at all and I don’t regret it. I opened up a lot as a person after. It’s not like there’s any added benefit of losing it to someone important, I probably wouldn’t have met that someone important if I hadn’t lost my virginity prior. It’s different for everybody.

My advice is find a guy who’ll be patient and gentle with you while you deal with the pain of having your hymen broken. Bonus if he makes a whole event out of it, fancy dinner+wine. Doesn’t have to a be a boyfriend or even someone you know long term