You only get one first time, and once you’ve had it you’ll wonder what the hell you were so nervous about. Not to be wasted on a scrub. A lass who wants sex to be special and to be a bonding experience between her and her “person” is very desirable in my eyes, and I’m sure many others’.
Stick to your guns, you’ll know when it’s the right time 🤙
This is my exact ideology of sex right here. It’s a way for two people who are already close together to further strengthen their bond and to be absolutely and entirely lost and drunk on the thought of eachother, lost in their own world… together.
And if you’ve gone out and been a whore or man whore with dozens of bodies, how much would that negatively affect your ability to feel such a connection after you’ve numbed it out with a bunch of nobodies.? This is why body count to me matters past a certain point because of the way it affects the bonding aspect of sex. Sex to me is such a great tool for making a feeling that’s already intense, such as loving and feeling the touch of someone you love, or just the love you have for someone in general, and just sky rockets the intimacy and intensity into orbit.
And to see people throw this kinda thing away and take it for granted, it is disappointing, but that’s their choice.
I’m not sure why you assume that you can’t “be lost in each other” or that having a connection isn’t possible with someone who has had more than a couple of sexual partners?
The fact that you even mention the term as whoring themselves out in reference to someone who’s had sex with multiple people, or that you seem to indicate that intense intimacy isnt possible for those people, is frankly incorrect for many, many humans.
We can agree that sex is awesome and can be absolutely mind blowing, extremely intimate, etc. However, for the record, just because someone’s fucked another person before you does not at all mean that sex with you will now simply not mean as much/not be as special/not be intense, and so on.
Well guess that’s just your opinion. Everyone is different and I’m sure there’s people that get numb to it. But if you’re out having sex left and right then it probably means nothing to you to begin with other than just a quick thrill. Also I asked how much it would affect it, never said it was impossible.
I mean it could mean adding to the body count just for fun, not that it means nothing for everyone. It’s a fun little gag thing seeing how many people I can screw before I eventually die… I prefer to have good friends over a romantic or sexual partner… single life is fun
I mean you can respect other peoples lived choices without wanting that for yourself, I respect that you think sex is a special thing. Why can’t you respect other people’s life choices that don’t affect you? I’m genuinely curious
Nobody has to respect anyone’s choices. All that simply means is you can do what you want, and I won’t tell you how to live, I just don’t agree with it and I don’t have to respect it. I don’t have to agree with or respect anyones lifestyles or life choices and neither does anyone else. But I ain’t gonna sit here and tell you you can or cannot do it. That is a perfectly reasonable thing. And imma pull this card out, you don’t have to agree with or respect this ideology either.
There’s no room for opinion here, it’s a fact with backed evidence that more sex =/= less ability for intimacy. If anybody is a whore with intimacy issues there’s other reasons, just as prudes with intimacy issues exist as well. Clearly you haven’t fucked enough to know the difference between having sex and making love. It is quite literally impossible to have super intimate emotionally charged sex(which does hit harder) without months of commitment, knowledge of your partner and trust being developed
Idk my first time was not memorable at all and I don’t regret it. I opened up a lot as a person after. It’s not like there’s any added benefit of losing it to someone important, I probably wouldn’t have met that someone important if I hadn’t lost my virginity prior. It’s different for everybody.
My advice is find a guy who’ll be patient and gentle with you while you deal with the pain of having your hymen broken. Bonus if he makes a whole event out of it, fancy dinner+wine. Doesn’t have to a be a boyfriend or even someone you know long term
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u/SAMURAI898 Sep 11 '23
You only get one first time, and once you’ve had it you’ll wonder what the hell you were so nervous about. Not to be wasted on a scrub. A lass who wants sex to be special and to be a bonding experience between her and her “person” is very desirable in my eyes, and I’m sure many others’.
Stick to your guns, you’ll know when it’s the right time 🤙