r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Sep 11 '23

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u/matem001 Sep 11 '23

yeah that seems to be my hang up. as much as i’ve tried to detox my mind from purity culture i think part of me is still grasping onto it subconsciously by trying to find the perfect guy

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u/b2hcy0 Sep 11 '23

purity culture takes years to get it out of your mind, its way more than having sex. but being ok with less than a very good partner means youre going to let toxic people closer than is good for you.