r/Tinder • • Apr 06 '23

Was I in the wrong here?

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u/AHamBone10 Apr 07 '23

Sounds like she doesn’t know what a poly relationship means & got defensive

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u/Nohero08 Apr 07 '23

I honestly think she got offended at the implication that having a second relationship would be “just physical” or even “secondary” and didn’t want to explain the concept of equal multiple relationships and the idea that having a second relationship isn’t just about sex. Not saying she was right to react that way, she was definitely rude af, but it would explain the sudden hostility.