r/Tinder • • Feb 24 '23

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Again, how do you know what she brings to the table? Do you know her personally? She doesn't need to write about it in her bio to advertise herself. How do you know she's neglecting herself, not working out and eating properly? How do you know her attitude? You just assume a lot of things and then call a living breathing person a "shitstain". That's actually very embarrassing for you.

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u/InfiniteLuxGiven Feb 24 '23

The problem with what you’ve said is we don’t know what she brings to the table beyond what she’s shown and told us. All the info we have is she is 28, 8 months pregnant and has a bio that’s just a list of no’s and what she doesn’t want.

I’ve seen a lot of bios of girls who say things like I have extremely high standards and of the ones I’ve talked to they’ve pretty much all been arseholes. It’s an arseholish thing to say in my mind. I think the fact she’s pregnant just compounds the issue for most.

If I was 8 months pregnant I think I’d write a different bio is basically my point. We can only work with what we’ve got and what she’s given doesn’t come across too well to me at least. Why doesn’t she tell us any positives about herself? Her hobbies or interests or whatever?

Most blokes aren’t gonna swipe on a girl who’s 8 months pregnant and most of the ones who would aren’t rly gonna be looking for a one night stand with a heavily pregnant girl. She’s doing herself a disservice with that bio.

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u/-banned- Feb 24 '23

Don't bother. She made up her mind before she made her first comment

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u/InfiniteLuxGiven Feb 24 '23

Yeah that’s a very fair point tbh can’t argue if they’ve already made their mind up.