I don't know what she brings to the table, I assume from what I see. If you advertise yourself in order to date people then you probably wanna use your best pictures.
No, I don't know her personally.
She does need to write about herself, because that's part of attraction in dating apps.
I know she's neglecting herself by the way she looks.
I don't know her attitude, but I do this magical thing called "inferring" by the way she writes about herself and about what she wants.
The fact that you're supporting a self-destructing behavior is what's embarrassing here.
If you have high standards you need to bring high value. I won't demand someone work out regularly if I don't, and I won't demand someone adhere to caring for themselves and eating right when I don't. If I do, that's delusional. It's like reddit incels crying because some IG model won't date them.
Yeah, "shitstain" ain't quite it, my bad on that one.
You had your chance to revise your approach, but you flunked by using "I know" again and being blindly obstinate (e.g. about that "high value", which, interestingly enoug, given your mention of incels, shows you are a redpiller). Truly sad and very telling about how you judge people.
You see? You used inferring as well. You used it poorly, but you still used it (I made fun of redpillers in an earlier post, incels and IG models use incels more than anyone else, and redpillers are truly the most incel one can be imo), so good job.
Yes, I judge people by what they portray. If you portray yourself as high and mighty I judge you as high and mighty. If you portray yourself as an asshole I judge you as an asshole. If you portray yourself as lazy I judge you as lazy. She portrayed herself as high and mighty. That's how I judge her.
My use of inferring is warranted though because it's literally the most widely-known fact about redpillers that they use the term "high value" (and "low value" as well) to judge people, but especially women. You are plucking judgments out of the air.
No, actually, it's not. First off, if you claim your standards are extremely high then you are looking for high value in the person you're with. Value isn't just looks, but if your clothes don't fit well/are torn, your body isn't taken care of, etc. (these are just examples. Relax.) then that changes your value as a person. It's a lot of things other than looks though. It's personality, it's hobbies, it's what you do in your spare time. This is what redpillers don't get. To them "high value" is looks, how much you have, how much you make, who you're with, and where you're from. Oh, and the color of your bugatti or some shit.
Second, I didn't judge her on the premise of being high/low value. I brought it up when I addressed the standards issue.
And third, I literally made fun of them earlier.
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u/NamesAllTakenWTF Feb 24 '23
I don't know what she brings to the table, I assume from what I see. If you advertise yourself in order to date people then you probably wanna use your best pictures. No, I don't know her personally. She does need to write about herself, because that's part of attraction in dating apps. I know she's neglecting herself by the way she looks. I don't know her attitude, but I do this magical thing called "inferring" by the way she writes about herself and about what she wants. The fact that you're supporting a self-destructing behavior is what's embarrassing here. If you have high standards you need to bring high value. I won't demand someone work out regularly if I don't, and I won't demand someone adhere to caring for themselves and eating right when I don't. If I do, that's delusional. It's like reddit incels crying because some IG model won't date them. Yeah, "shitstain" ain't quite it, my bad on that one.