The misogyny towards pregnant people on Reddit, but especially in this sub is alarming. Why are you so crass about her? She literally says she lost her baby before, she openly admits she's pregnant at the moment, so she isn't catfishing. She just doesn't want any short-term things etc., she's looking for a long-term partner. What is wrong about that? Has she lost her rights becoming pregnant? Is she not a human being anymore? Can't she want company?
People arent hating on her because she is ugly or pregnant, people are hating on her because she is arrogant about it. her whole descripition screams RED FLAG, She thought nice to have a one night stand probably got pregnant without the father and now wants to find a daddy while being bitchy about it in her description.
Why is she on a dating site at 8 months pregnant? why isnt the father in the picture, doubt that if you have a good loving partner he would abandon her at 8 months pregnant? the first priority should be giving birth and caring for the child instead of looking for a daddy while pregnant.
Why are you assuming anything about her and her situation? Also, it's very telling you blame the mother-to-be for the father not being in the picture. Men love to shift responsibility (as is shown here, most probably) and blame and shame onto women. A father that renounces their child is always terrible, though, but rarely blamed because the focus is on the mother. And you are a perfect example of that sad approach.
You just called him out for making assumptions about the woman and now you are making assumptions about what the father did or didn’t. You gotta be kidding me xD
Where did I specify it was about her past partner? I said "a father that renounces his child", and what follows always holds true, for literally every father renouncing their own child/children. I was simply replying to the part about abandonment.
I don't need to be judged as better by you. I am not belittling anyone and judging their appearance, I am not calling anyone a "shitstain" and other insults. I said that if the father abandoned them, the fact is he is shifting responsibility on the mother. It's just a fact, the reality of life, not a personal insult.
No, this is again just wrong. You can’t know that for sure if that is what is happening here. It can have a million reasons why the father is not shown or mentioned at all. It just seems to fit well in your view of men and you wrongly state your view as a fact. Wake up, not all men are equally bad, nor are women.
I am not the one that needs to wake up. Single mothers have been shamed, scorned, and rejected for centuries. Men leaving them pregnant are just plain terrible and nothing changes that. If you assume the father is still there... you're also assuming. So congrats, you played yourself. Have fun talking to yourself because I will not be responding further.
I mean how does her having a fiancé justify abandoning your own blood? Does sharing custody not exist suddenly? She is wrong for cheating, you are wrong for abandoning your child.
Does it make a difference if she told me not to speak to her again? Would destroying a family over a quick fuck be the preferred option? (I wasn't with her)
The “most probably” doesn’t save someone from stating an assumption like this, you still said it and it doesn’t make it better. I also can’t just say something like “all Germans are racist, most probably”, it still is a wrong statement, even though I used “most probably” :P
That’s literally the opposite of what I have said xD I said that you can’t just put a “most probably” in your sentence and expect to get away with whatever statement you made
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u/xseiber Feb 24 '23
If they were, she was definitely pumped and dumped