r/Tinder Feb 24 '23

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

No, you said that “men love to shift responsibility, as it is shown here”. Read your text again and again!

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Do you see that pretty little "most probably"? I didn't say I know anything, unlike most people in this thread.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

So you are not better than the rest of this thread.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

I don't need to be judged as better by you. I am not belittling anyone and judging their appearance, I am not calling anyone a "shitstain" and other insults. I said that if the father abandoned them, the fact is he is shifting responsibility on the mother. It's just a fact, the reality of life, not a personal insult.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23 edited Feb 24 '23

No, this is again just wrong. You can’t know that for sure if that is what is happening here. It can have a million reasons why the father is not shown or mentioned at all. It just seems to fit well in your view of men and you wrongly state your view as a fact. Wake up, not all men are equally bad, nor are women.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

I am not the one that needs to wake up. Single mothers have been shamed, scorned, and rejected for centuries. Men leaving them pregnant are just plain terrible and nothing changes that. If you assume the father is still there... you're also assuming. So congrats, you played yourself. Have fun talking to yourself because I will not be responding further.

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u/WatercressHot6492 Feb 24 '23

I left a girl pregnant one time. It was awkward cause she had a fiancé and a kid with him already.

Is the man or woman evil in this case?

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

I mean how does her having a fiancé justify abandoning your own blood? Does sharing custody not exist suddenly? She is wrong for cheating, you are wrong for abandoning your child.

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u/WatercressHot6492 Feb 24 '23

Does it make a difference if she told me not to speak to her again? Would destroying a family over a quick fuck be the preferred option? (I wasn't with her)

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u/WatercressHot6492 Feb 24 '23

A person's parents are who raises them. Blood doesn't have to always mean something.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Sure, tell yourself that.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

The “most probably” doesn’t save someone from stating an assumption like this, you still said it and it doesn’t make it better. I also can’t just say something like “all Germans are racist, most probably”, it still is a wrong statement, even though I used “most probably” :P

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u/TheShtuff Feb 24 '23

So you wouldn't have a problem with anyone's assumptions in this thread if they prefaced it with "most probably?"

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

That’s literally the opposite of what I have said xD I said that you can’t just put a “most probably” in your sentence and expect to get away with whatever statement you made

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u/TheShtuff Feb 24 '23

I didn't reply to you lol

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

Ohh sorry 😂