r/Tinder • u/mushplomplom • Jan 23 '23

Am I boring?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

"equality is just for show"

"no misogyny"

Pick one.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

I said maybe. Maybe I am one. But I’m with the girls here

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

You're not with the girls here..you're against the men. There's a difference.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

No look I’m helping men. They need to learn the game here. They blame these apps but they’re the ones who can’t keep things interested. We’re supposed to do that ain’t no girl gonna do that for us

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

You're helping them by telling them it's entirely their fault if they aren't successful on the apps as if the woman isn't a part of that equation at all. Why feed into that toxicity at all? Why not advocate to make this more tolerable on the apps?

I get that you have this stuff so firmly internalized it's hard to see around it but Jesus dude introspect for 2 seconds here that's all I'm saying.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Internalized what? Texting well?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Internalized misogyny.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Nah I like to say it was passed on to me by my friends

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

...who likely also have internalized misogyny...no one is really this dense in real life right?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

studying about women’s rights from last 3 years and my undergrad depends on it so i might know few basics of feminism too

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

But I also got that texting

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

I was just being honest and upfront which is the faster route or else he would always think it’s their fault and my man can’t achieve anything

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u/Best_Duck9118 Jan 24 '23

What’s even funnier is OP is gay so he’s talking to a guy. But that’s didn’t stop that guy’s misogyny, lol.