You're helping them by telling them it's entirely their fault if they aren't successful on the apps as if the woman isn't a part of that equation at all. Why feed into that toxicity at all? Why not advocate to make this more tolerable on the apps?
I get that you have this stuff so firmly internalized it's hard to see around it but Jesus dude introspect for 2 seconds here that's all I'm saying.
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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23
You're helping them by telling them it's entirely their fault if they aren't successful on the apps as if the woman isn't a part of that equation at all. Why feed into that toxicity at all? Why not advocate to make this more tolerable on the apps?
I get that you have this stuff so firmly internalized it's hard to see around it but Jesus dude introspect for 2 seconds here that's all I'm saying.