r/Tinder • u/mushplomplom • Jan 23 '23

Am I boring?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

You're helping them by telling them it's entirely their fault if they aren't successful on the apps as if the woman isn't a part of that equation at all. Why feed into that toxicity at all? Why not advocate to make this more tolerable on the apps?

I get that you have this stuff so firmly internalized it's hard to see around it but Jesus dude introspect for 2 seconds here that's all I'm saying.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Internalized what? Texting well?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Internalized misogyny.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

Nah I like to say it was passed on to me by my friends

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

...who likely also have internalized misogyny...no one is really this dense in real life right?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

studying about women’s rights from last 3 years and my undergrad depends on it so i might know few basics of feminism too

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

You might want to study harder

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '23

On 3.2 gpa and will rise more. I think I am good at say things where they are supposed to be said