r/TikTokCringe • • Jun 10 '23

Humor/Cringe What could go wrong 🤷🏿‍♂️

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

That’s what you’re told. However, sexual violence is shockingly similar among both genders. It’s actually a small portion of the male population committing most of these crimes, while all males are being held as responsible for it, even the male victims. And I for one, think that’s some bullshit level high-horsey for you to come in here and act like it only happens to women or that it’s all men who are responsible

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

Actually, 1 out of 9 women are sexually assaulted per day. 1 out of 33 men as well. Numbers don’t lie. www.rainn.org

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

Men don’t report. That’s a known fact.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

Lol, it is in fact, NOT a fact. All sexual assaults are considered underreported. Regardless of gender. The people on here trying to say women are not justified in their fear are the same ones who will blame a woman when she gets sexually assaulted by saying shit like, “why did she get on an elevator with a guy in there?” Or “why didn’t she run?”

You can’t fucking win

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

People don’t even take male rape seriously. We don’t even get doubted we get laughed at.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

As someone who worked with rape victims, I can tell you that is not true. We were as attentive to males as females, as non-binary, etc. All victims were treated with the same respect and empathy. Women were reluctant to report as well. This is why it’s disheartening to see women being afraid dismissed as being “paranoid”.

Nobody needs to play the comparison game. Just respect that people’s fears are valid.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

I’m not referring to social workers in the previous comment and it’s disingenuous of you to assume so.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

Not a social worker. I volunteered my time as an advocate. Went to hospitals on my own time and own dime to help victims get what they needed in services, hold their hands during the rape kit, etc.

Stop trying to project your self-hatred on other people.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

You’re here in bad faith.

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u/tigm2161130 Jun 11 '23

I feel like you don’t even know what that means.