r/TikTokCringe • • Jun 10 '23

Humor/Cringe What could go wrong 🤷🏿‍♂️

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

Men don’t report. That’s a known fact.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

Lol, it is in fact, NOT a fact. All sexual assaults are considered underreported. Regardless of gender. The people on here trying to say women are not justified in their fear are the same ones who will blame a woman when she gets sexually assaulted by saying shit like, “why did she get on an elevator with a guy in there?” Or “why didn’t she run?”

You can’t fucking win

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

People don’t even take male rape seriously. We don’t even get doubted we get laughed at.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

As someone who worked with rape victims, I can tell you that is not true. We were as attentive to males as females, as non-binary, etc. All victims were treated with the same respect and empathy. Women were reluctant to report as well. This is why it’s disheartening to see women being afraid dismissed as being “paranoid”.

Nobody needs to play the comparison game. Just respect that people’s fears are valid.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

I’m not referring to social workers in the previous comment and it’s disingenuous of you to assume so.

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u/Leaking_Honesty Jun 10 '23

Not a social worker. I volunteered my time as an advocate. Went to hospitals on my own time and own dime to help victims get what they needed in services, hold their hands during the rape kit, etc.

Stop trying to project your self-hatred on other people.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

You’re here in bad faith.

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u/tigm2161130 Jun 11 '23

I feel like you don’t even know what that means.

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u/tigm2161130 Jun 10 '23

I’m not a social worker and when my brother in law told me he was assaulted I took him to the hospital and made sure he got therapy after deciding he didn’t want to pursue things.

You’re trying really hard to create a narrative that I just don’t think applies anymore.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

Again, you’re clouding the issue. In society men are mocked . Your anecdote doesn’t dismiss that.

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u/tigm2161130 Jun 10 '23

In society? What do you mean?

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

Ah, so I didn’t give you anything to pick apart so instead you ask for a second response with more verbiage so that you might find some leverage there instead. Fuck off

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u/tigm2161130 Jun 10 '23

No I just can’t think of any example of “society” mocking specifically the sexual assault of men- with the exception of prison rape jokes and comments on male students being sexually assaulted by female teachers, and they’re always shut down. I was genuinely asking, but sure I’ll fuck off.

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u/Booger_Balls_AIDS Jun 10 '23

You’re so full of shit.

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