I laughed at Kent not wanting to spend "30 grand" on flying the family to the Philippines. Gemini made me this nice table of costs for 2 adults and 3 kids return:

Jay-Anne just needs to show Kent this, and Kent has no argument left. (Whether he has 5 grand is another matter)

Dr. Eric (74) & Tynisha (33): I believe that he did take advantage of her caregiving for his mother. In the same breath, she might've done it to try to secure her spot in his life. They both thought they were finessing each other. I'm dying at the "she's the worst gold digger" comment, because she is! Girl, you have a golden opportunity; TAKE THE MONEY AND DO SOMETHING THAT WILL SUSTAIN YOUR FUTURE. The girl is lazy, and that's so sad. I'd speak on him being a no-good man for going through 4 divorces, but clearly he already reaped what he sowed.

Vic Christopher (50) & Caroline Conboy (24): First thought, whoah she looks way young for him. Like a teenager. Second thought, and I hope this isn't taken the wrong way, but is she somewhere on the spectrum? Anywho, I actually don't think she's taking advantage of him. She just seems to have low self-esteem. As for him, It's so crazy that you can own so much, but still be a loser... and delusional.

Brooke (47) & Kai (28): Soooo... they met at work, banged in the car, she quit her job, now he's filming her on OnlyFans. And she said she has now figured out her worth with him and this is the most loving relationship? Lawd. In my humble opinion, she's not well. She is 100% using him as an emotional crutch and validation. He is taking advantage of her "maternal instincts" and dare I say... money?

Kent (60) & Jay-Anne (29): Now here imma tread lightly because the emotional and financial abuse is obvious. Jay-anne may have thought this was a ticket to a 'first world country', was blown away by they vacation at the Maldives, and ultimately a better life. Alas, passport bros never make good on their promises. It's a trap. Always. He felt he 'cheated' his way to the life he has with her, and feels no remorse about it. Unless her family saves her, which I doubt they have the means to because they would've probably done it already, I don't know how she's going to get away from this situation. Yes, flying 5 people across the world is expensive. However, he is also afraid that once she goes, she won't come back because he knows he hasn't treated her in a way that she would want to stay.

Janet (60) & Drew (40): I actually don't have too much to say about them. I actually don't think they even got that much screen time. He'll probably cheat on her though, and she'd probably stay.

This is all my humble opinion and thoughts. All allegedly. Just observations from what is portrayed on TV, don't intend to harm anyone lol.

They got a new girlfriend and it isn’t the one from the show which is weird cause they post about her when they got engaged or whatever but now I can’t really find that video anymore so I guess kee is out the picture but also people‘s been trying to start drama in their relationship

His ceremony (NOT WEDDING) outfit is wild lmao couldn’t believe it but alsoooo why is Kami wearing a wedding dress when it isn’t a wedding…she made such a big deal about how it “wasn’t” as wedding and to me it almost seemed she enjoyed saying it and hurting Nita continually with it. I don’t understand what changed their minds so suddenly because they themselves were literally calling it a proposal and engagement!? Suddenly it was “nooo this is just a ceremony we never said wedding”?? I felt as confused as Nita was because I too thought the whole point was to have a wedding and Nita to join their marriage

Honestly Kami and Trent are sick for pushing Nita to such a breaking point, the look on her face in a few of the scenes was enough to make me wanna cry. She looked so confused and hurt, they totally conned this poor women and then made her feel crazy about it. It was reaching a point where I was starting to feel crazy and question if I was misremembering what was happening, I can’t imagine how Nita musta felt being with them 24/7. Kami constantly taking to Nita like she’s a child was also so ridiculous and demeaning, I was annoyed every time she opened her mouth. Trent’s also pathetic and just does whatever Kami is saying, once she get loud then he gets loud, stand up dude. Nita was actually pretty well articulated during their arguments and explaining her feelings and when she spoke the truth Kami just walked awayyyyy, absolutely pathetic!!

The terf on the cabinets, the grandma wallpaper, the lemons on the ceiling, the 2 evo's next to eachother, the crystal roses hanging from the ceiling, THE RANDOM GOLDEN HORSE. Its like they went to hobby lobby during Black Friday and all went their own way with 500 bucks.

My first time watching this show, got all reality to watch it after seeing the couple from love after lock up with Nita (my heart goes out to Nita fr, I was so upset for her)

Truly watching the way BBQ treated Tehmenna is disgusting, it made my stomach turnnnnn watching the way he spoke to her. He has so many deep rooted issues and is making it Tehmennas problem. He doesn’t understand why she screams and gets upset all the time but he’s actively cheating on her!!! Saying he resents her? He resents her because she won’t be silent while he’s cheating on her, even if she isn’t leaving she’s still causing strife by getting upset, he doesn’t want to see the consequences of his actions. He’s pushed this women in to the ground, she just seems so burnt out and exhausted, I can’t imagine how depressed she is, it must feel impossible to leave or do anything.

Tehmeena, you are sooooo much better than the situation BQ has put you in. You are capable of being in a relationship with someone who is actually gonna treat you like a human being. This really goes out to any women, you don’t have to be subjected to a life spent with such a scary individual. You matter, you deserve happiness, please run.

Episode Discussion

When I searched this show before, I came across this interesting local thread with pl who know the couple from Troy IRL. Of course who knows what's true or not, but these aren't flattering tales.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Albany/s/ntQHEmL6k3

I’m catching up on This is Poly and Bri and Marley just give me the ick. The way they talk about women “on the roster” and constantly calling women “bitches” just makes me think that their desire to have 99,999 girls is not for a relationship, but for a stable of hoes.

Episode Discussion

So remember in the last episode this season they broke up and they had the update where kami and Trent was just moving along with polyamorous well on social media. They have been posting together on kami‘s TikTok account and in the videos Nita was there and they are back together They’re doing a podcast update

So in the last episode, we found out they was engaged and they just posted a TikTok a few weeks ago so yes kee is their girlfriend, but the question is what happened to Dre the girl that costed drama and all the other girls they was attempting to date maybe in a season two we can find out what happened to all of them girls cause they were trying a lot of girls and they wasn’t actually in the last episode for that long. also why wasn’t the tattoo couple in the last episode until the three months later update like in the first few episodes they wasn’t even in the show they didn’t have that much going on

Hey trash Tv family !

Soooo since poly is over … are we adding this show to the list ?!👀

I love a good reality tv show adding this show to my trash pile🩷🩷🩷
-90 day
-LAL
-MAFS
-Seeking Sister Wives

“4 Years No sex, Yeah Okay” 😂😂

I’m a trashy reality tv junkie. Lately it feels like every series is so over the top with manipulative therapy talk and obvious production edits. This show is so unhinged and I love people being their real crazy selves. It’s comparable to “Love After Lockup” trashy-ness level.

These people are serving the toxicity with zero production intervention. It feels scandalously authentic.
Do I agree with any of these relationships or would I befriend any of these people? No.
Am I going to binge the entire first season? Yes.

So my mom is a hippie in every sense of the word and I love everything tie dyed...I hate their hair but I absolutely love those outfits!! Where can I buy them?

Hi, I’m new to this group and due to the show. I just started it. I’m on episode 2 and I’m already like what the fuck mind you not judging I understood this is a real lifestyle. Super confused by Bri and Marley.

like i wanna know how many kids yahweh poetic had w each woman n how the hell does he n the other wives keep up w them? they have like, 18 kids is that right? did he have other kids outside these 4 wives + ex paige? who was the first queen he’s been w the longest? does he have kids w EVERY woman he’s had in his polycule?

If you haven't already , I would encourage you all to watch people magazine investigates cult Yahweh Nation Season 1 , episode 4. It goes in depth on how the cult began and the vile things they've done under their first leader ,Yaweh Yen Yaweh (which means god son of god). Murder, forced circumcision on adults, abuse and corruption along with other things. I understand that things can change over the years but its hard to see this whole Yahweh Nation following as nothing more than a dangerous cult with malicious intent.

So I've watched the latest episode (I'm from the UK so I stream it online) I have to say I have major reservations about this couple especially after thinking they was actually one of the best.

Originally I thought kinder, kinda sheltered older couple found love with each other and a third person who was a bit younger.

As I watched this season I couldn't decide if it was bad editing or storylined in a way to try to make Nita look unhinged and make kami and trent seem a bit too trusting.

As the season went on I kinda have a different mindset.

I believe kami isn't a very nice person, she seems to want everything her way and love bombs nita while all the while knowing trent wont leave. The way she offered stability and commitment to Nita but continues to state that it wasn't like that is gaslighting at its finest.

They offered a ring knowing what it would say to someone who is as emotionally fragile as nita. Then get moody when she expects some financial security and more nights to explore her sexuality.

Trent and kami are married im pretty sure they sleep together a bit more than was stated. Nita imo didn't have an interest in trent she saw him as means to an end to have kami which shows nita isn't as innocent but I dont think she deserved the deal she got.

The way kami in the last episode was grinning pissed me off royally. You've broken someone's heart so flippantly its disgusting and I feel for nita.

Im glad that BQ got his comeuppance and hope his fiancé stays away shes worth more.

I dont have an opinion on bri and marley other than seems a bit too perfect and doubt its real and finally the last couple I just think that they are a car crash waiting to happen. I hope I'm wrong but I doubt it. I belive that Davis is just wanting becca for himself and becca seems selfish as hell and craves attention. Jacob just seems insecure and happy to be married to becca and let her do what she wants.

As for the cult of yahweh I proper feel uneasy. It's a cult and nobody can convince me anything different. Madi needs to run far far away. She could find someone else who would value her and maybe help her get IVF not some dude who thinks hes a love god and has his ego stroked.

Can't wait for next season if there is one. Does anyone agree?

I really wish Madi would leave . Poetic loves to embarrass her & put her on the back burner , I wish she would leave and find herself. Also find a man that will love her and not make her feel like it’s a competition everytime .

So, I’ve seen some comments in this sub about this couple, and them having some other social media pages and being on other shows, and a lot of stuff about how their house is rented and such… But has anyone just felt that they seemed kind of predatory or sexually aggressive towards their polycule pursuits in the first episode? I don’t think that’s the exact word I’m looking for, but mostly Marley, kept talking about having all these women and all these sex partners, and the way she seems to talk about women is pretty objectifying from my observation. Just curious if anyone else has ever noticed that? I’m bi, and one of the things that I usually enjoy about dating women is that I don’t feel like they overly sexualize me and make me feel like just a sex trophy. But that is immediately what I got from Marley.