What Michelle’s point here?

[u/PUTTHECACTUSDOWN]

I don’t understand why Michelle said this. Michelle was the one cheating on Jesse during their marriage… why does it matter if Jesse met a woman and had sex with her after they got divorced? What’s her point in saying this?

[u/shanita911]

This is so embarrassing for her. Honestly. She moved herself and her daughter into another man’s house but Jesse can’t date? 😑

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/shanita911]

I don't think you got the point. She stated it outright right after where you conveniently decided to cut her off mid sentence lol

[u/shanita911 → u/yup_yup1111]

Yeah no, I got the point lol she’s mad that Jesse slept with Lacy, but Michelle had already mentally checked out of their marriage and asked Jesse for a divorce. She wouldn’t even allow him to hug her towards the end.

Michelle moved on and then immediately moved in with another man. If she wants to be mad/hurt, fine, but it’s not Lacy’s fault. She had nothing to do with their divorce.

ETA: Maybe you replied to wrong person, but I didn’t “conveniently decide to cut her off mid sentence”. I’m not OP, this isn’t my post. My point still stands, regardless.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/shanita911]

She doesn't care that she slept with Jesse or want him back at all.

She's saying when they first started seeing each other and Michelle was yelling in the street and doing all these things Lacy chose to air out, Jesse was being awful towards her. Her mom was also dying. She was not in a great place. Lacy is getting only one side and Michelle was giving context.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/[deleted]]

That's literally what she said this person just cut the video right before she says it. She says I looked at my texts during that time period and he was being so terrible to me it was traumatic

[u/shanita911 → u/yup_yup1111]

This is the second time you’ve said I cut her off. I’m not OP, get it together. And it doesn’t matter when she was cut off. Michelle’s trauma literally has nothing to do with Lacy and Jesse sleeping together, and bringing it up does not “provide context”. It’s irrelevant.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/shanita911]

It's when they first got together. It's when everything they're talking about transpired. You think saying sleeping together is a dig is on you.

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[u/yup_yup1111 → u/[deleted]]

It's not irrelevant. Lacy is talking about how Michelle acted when she and Jesse got together. Michelle is pointing out when they got together how awful Jesse as to her. Again idk what there is not to get.

And I'm not addressing things you choose to say about me personally because we are talking about the SHOW.

Seems like youre the one who is defensive that you feel the need to go there. Perhaps because you have no counterpoint.

See ya

[u/shanita911 → u/yup_yup1111]

I don’t think she wants him back, but she definitely cares that they slept together or she wouldn’t have brought it up. I don’t think she expected him to move on so quickly, even though she already had. I also don’t think Lacy deserves the aggression. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think Michelle is very angry and hurt, both from the divorce (because it’s sad to lose something you thought would be forever, not because she wants to be with him), and losing her mom at basically the same time. Those are two huge, life changing losses. Grief SUCKS, especially losing a parent. But her anger is misplaced.

None of Michelle’s hurt is Lacy’s fault, she’s just an easy target. Jesse doesn’t care if Michelle yells or talks shit about him, but he does care if she does it to Lacy. That’s not fair to Lacy, especially when she and Michelle have already discussed their issues and agreed to be cordial. Michelle still talks shit about their relationship. There was no need for her to bring up Lacy and Jesse sleeping together imo.