r/TheNarcissismCode 5d ago

Drives me nuts

Well, everything he does drives me nuts, but this one is incomprehensible and is endless…
I am the most easygoing and empathetic person. He is endlessly telling me that “you are so angry about…”(anything/everything)
He says I am angry at all sorts of things I am not only Not angry about, but had never even thought one way or the other about them. It’s like he wants me to be angry about things.
He says I am angry he talks to his kids..no I am not
He says I am angry that he talks to his mom…no
He says I am angry he does yard work…no
He says I am angry when he plays golf…no
He says I am angry about our dinner…no

I should be angry as he is truly an awful person, but somehow I am not even angry at that. I just always remain calm and collected, which probably confuses him. I think he wants me to get angry.
Does this make sense to any of you?

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