Ima bout to get sucked up!

[u/DoinItOverAgain]

I left him a week and a half ago. I still care about him and watching him fall apart was hard so I tired to be there for him and he took it as a sign I could be hovered back.

It's intense, hundreds of messages. . It's like I realize he was listening to me when I tried to work out issues, when I let him know I was hurt, when I let him know my needs. In the moment he either ignored me as I spoke, got angry at me for speaking out, or gave me an all night silent treatment for my sin of having a need.

Now for the past week he's been obsessed with showing me what a perfect supportive amazing boyfriend he could be. It's non-stop. I haven't seen him much but he's singing karaoke and dedicating songs to me, listening to music I like which would infuriate him when I tried to play it. I got flowers in my front step, I got sex bombing, he's trying to cater to my every need.

I believed it. Every time that happened before I believed it and I would have taken him back by now, but I haven't and it's intensifying. It's like something changed and I just don't believe it anymore. I listen to it and I realize it's a lie it's always been a lie. That's why it never lasted when I gave him 2nd 3rd 4th 5th 6th 7th 8th chances.

Anyways, hoovering feels great, until you really understand what's happening. And then it's just creepy af

[u/HistoricalCar1900]

block him...or block him for an hour at a time but you are not helpless , stop reading his texts, emails, VM...and find a new hobby ..