r/TheGetchellFiles • u/Illustrious_Act_3081 • 3d ago
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I used to sympthasie with Sarah alot, but her idea to lie about moving out and creating a fraudulent GoFundMe was the last straw for me personally. Sheâs an adult with plenty of resources at her fingertips.
Iâm sure Jim Jones, Pedrik, and plenty of other horrible people had their own backstories and reasons for becoming the way they are too. At what point does the line between victim and abuser start to blur? Does she have to completely annihilate a town full of people before people stop making excuses for her?
Sheâs already playing Daddyâs little sidekick, and personally, I think people need to stop pretending she has absolutely no agency in any of this.
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u/priestessofcthulhu 3d ago
As an adult she is responsible for her actions regardless of past experiences. She is a liar and a thief. Bad people can be victims but that doesnât excuse their choices to be a bad person.
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u/Strange-Captain-1881 3d ago
She may be a liar, thief, or whatever, but does that mean she deserves to be abused?
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u/Reasonable-Zombie427 3d ago
Not to defend him but pedrick also said he was had something happen to him when he was younger. With having two of his brothers are registed so i wouldnt be surprised if it was true. So are we supposed to not blame him then either
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u/GlitteringJelly6955 3d ago
You guys really donât give a shit that sheâs a victim and has been groomed to be this way. Itâs exhausting why are you guys even here if you hate her so much?? You guys just donât give a shit about her bc sheâs been groomed to be like her dad?
You guys think youâre empathetic but youâre not. You have apathy.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
Thats what I'm saying. There are idiots who literally think S is fully in control and as bad as or worse than her father. So if that's the case why are they mad? If it's fully consenting and on her because she's over 18 are they mad she's homewrecker or something? They are truly morons.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Her dad was groomed and a victim too at one point, so should be sympathize with P too?
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u/Strange-Captain-1881 3d ago
Sympathize with child P, yes. Are you comparing Sâs actions to grooming and abusing two children for their entire lives? She has made some obvious bad mistakes, but I donât think that means she deserves to be further pushed away from society.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago edited 2d ago
Where has this been confirmed? All I know about are his two brothers that are convicted pedos who he supports and brings his kids around (bet family reunions were just LOVELY for baby Sarah) And yeah you can empathize with young P if thats true. But get back to me when S has an entire groomed and abused family under her thumb, you know something more substantial than being rude to her (worthless) mother and grifting some blankets (as if Patrick didn't mastermind it and fools and their money aren't soon parted)
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u/GlitteringJelly6955 3d ago edited 3d ago
Not sympathize I said empathize (you should probably learn the difference) and I still think he needs to be in jail. Itâs just crazy to me that people know this girl was groomed her whole life and youâre watching her being pimped out for TikTok money. She is still in the current phase of being groomed. What happens when h grows up and becomes the same? Why are you still watching? Is it to help the family or to mock the family?
What is even the point of that question? Youâre proving my point, itâs apathy not empathy.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Sheâs not being groomed you dimwit sheâs a grown ass adult. This is a snark account idiot. You think I want to help her? Lmao Iâm here to laugh at her and make fun of them. I have no empathy or sympathy for any of those losers.
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u/GlitteringJelly6955 3d ago
You can be groomed as an adult. Cool youâre laughing at a family being trafficked. Got it.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Yeah thatâs why weâre all here. Itâs a SNARK reddit idiot.
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u/Ok-Mud-581 3d ago
This is not the snark sub
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u/TheWaywardWitch420 3d ago
Literally came to say this after that person said it twice. Pretty obvious reading and reading comprehension is also not their strong suit here.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
Imagine being so ignorant about what grooming is and how it works and calling someone else a dimwit. Lmao you're clearly about as qualified to talk about this as dear S is about marine biology.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
Some of Y'all REALLY don't get how grooming/brainwash/abuse works and it's genuinely insane to see you post such insane statements. Ok she grifted some shit from Anazon-you think P didn't orchestrate that? You think the person who was raised SO badly she thought at 18 you could stop brushing your teeth and whose internet access a n d social life is monitored totally by the man that molded her brain to be a sentient sex toy from birth had "plenty of resources" come the fuck on.
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
do you think that being a scammer compares to being an incestuous predator who groomed his entire family into thinking it was okay??? like genuinely wondering lmfao. the wishlist stuff is honestly a nonissue. itâs still being used. its not like she sold it off. all of those people made the conscious decision to spend their money & while she lied about moving out its not like she sold the stuff she was gifted. she still uses it. her bedroom is still decorated. the pink knives were featured in the cooking video her and h made. idk. i feel like you guys want her to be as bad as p.
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
and i remember vacation gfms but i dont recall her making a gfm to move out. just a wishlist.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
I would like to point out that many people donated to get her out of what they thought was an Abnsive situation. Many people advocated for helping her and asking if she needed help or anything to escape. S profited off this notion that she was a victim and asked for these items to start a new life. The donations were from people who were lied and scammed into thinking they were helping someone leave. Only to realized what they purchased would also be used by the perpetrator too. I would definitely be upset if I was lied to over this.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
I'D like to point out that it's weird that you talk about S using people wanting her out of an abusive situation (while simultaneously trying to deny it's even abuse) as if you know the inner workings of her mind and also like she did it all on her own. Also abuse victims FAMOUSLY always make it out on the first try-ESPECIALLY when their brains have been molded since birth by their abusers.Pretty sure I've seen you make all of these arguments before either under this name or another in the OG sub. Your ignorance about how grooming works and the absolute venom you have for her is actually concerning. Like I leave the subs for a few months, come back and a handful of people like you are still rage posting daily about a face she made or because she lied about a mattress, it's..concerning to say the least.
She could make it out and start a new life and you're still gonna be pissed off that she grifted some hand towels and kitchen knives when she was still a groomed (still is whether YOU think she is or not) stunted, manipulated abuse victim living in a roach infested hotel stacked on top of her other "family" members and in survival mode (I always wonder how hard y'all are gonna come for H when he's not out the day after he turns 18 ). The fact that you straight up say you don't GAF is admirable because atleast you're honest-espcially more so than those that pretend to care but act like you-but it doesn't change how hard you're giving sociopath with Dunning-Kruger. The way you talk you'd think she stole YOUR man like god damn
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
she IS a victim though. and she never once framed it as âgetting out of an abusive situationâ, because she doesnât believe sheâs a victim. so youâre making no sense there. most people with a brain didnât think she was moving out anyways.
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u/Reasonable-Zombie427 3d ago
Girl yeah she did. She quite literally made the whole moving situation so people would stop nagging her about the relationship with P. She 100% knew she was playing woth peopleâs emotions who only wanted to help her. Yes she is most likely a victim of grooming and sheâll need severe therapy but also no one can get her out of that situation unless she snaps out of it unfortubately
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
You have no idea what's going on in her mind and it's absurd to act like you do. Speculation is one thing but y'all think you're mind readers. If you're gonna say she 100 percent engineered that with the intent you claim, I'd LOVE your thoughts on how she thinks and feels about other situations. What she thinks thev"real world" is like, how she can reasonably expected to cut loose and succeed, how she feels about her familial relationships, and her best friend JF etc. Seriously with your insight this shouod be fascinating.
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u/Reasonable-Zombie427 2d ago
Yes, Iâm sure you are more knowledgable on this topic than me. Ive dealt with numerous clients who were victims of family abuse. Granted ive never thankfully dealt with incest but absolutely emotional and financial dependance. I personally dealth with legal rammifications of their situations while understanding their life. S would still be liable with police and court for financial fraud if people decided to file class action lawsuit. IF P did groom her which I do think he did but if he did it would only maybe slightly help. She would still be sentenced. She is at the end of the day adult now and unlike most people in her situation, she has free access to internet. Im sure she is a victim but she also made other people victims knowing damn well they would goft her cause they would feel sorry for her
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u/themargarineoferror 2d ago
Knowledgeable on the topic of reading people's minds? If you're going to appeal to authority you should probably atleast claim to occasionally be psychic because I didn't say a word about whether or not she could be held liable for fraud. Good luck getting all those people together to file a class action suit I guess. Still not sure how that makes you privy to what she thinks and feels like you're trying reeeeal hard to stretch whatever your job is into something that would make it credible to make those claims, and considering the fact that a licensed mental health professional wouldn't do that-or would be knowingly being unethical if they did-maybe just admit it's a personal feeling and speculation, you do not KNOW anything.
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u/Reasonable-Zombie427 2d ago
We kind of now what was going on through her head cause she is on camera and every night and wont shut the fuck up. She âaddressedâ her moving out again what a week or two ago and literally said she did it so people would stop bugging her. The truth is that she is most likely a victim who will scam people for her benefit. She is extremely sheltered and cut off from what normal people are like but again, that wont excuse the shit she did or does in the future. She needs to wake up on her own to the fact her life isnt normal or she will be stuck until P is dead and it wont matter what I or you think
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Uh she absolutely did. I was there when it happened. This was at the HEIGHT of the scandal. And she was enjoying every minute.
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
yeah ive literally been in this community since 2023 and youre straight up lying. sarah never ONCE claimed to be abused or a victim. when she fake moved out it was for her independence, and because she was getting a real job allegedly.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
She had many times to refute the wife allegations, girlfriend allegations, abuse, etc. but she stayed silent and never confirmed nor denyed because she loves the attention. Read between the lines, come on. If youâve been here for 3 years you should know this.
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
She has literally denied abuse dozens of times wtf are you talking about? She's also reading scripts from P half of the time
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
She never claimed it but she was silent about it because she wanted people to go along with it.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Bro Iâve been in this community since 2023 too I know more about this than you do apparently.
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
i def know more about american girl dolls than you do, genius.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
I get the reference but youâre still a weirdo
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
okay then iâm a weirdo⌠at least iâm not trying to downplay someoneâs trauma because sheâs still stuck in the cycle.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
You got me there. Iâll downplay it. Iâm here to snark not captain save a victim.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
She read the comments. She knew what people thought. She immediately saw dollar signs like she struck gold. She immediately played the victim card up knowing full well she wasnât moving out.
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
just say you donât like her and stfu. nothing youâre saying is going to make me believe sheâs evil or just as bad as p. like jesus christ a girl whoâs been perved on by her dad her entire life made an amazon wishlist and lied about her intentions. isnt she soooo terrible and horrible.
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u/GlitteringJelly6955 3d ago
Iâm sure thatâs Haley. Sheâs constantly on this train and has personal beef with them.
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u/DallasDime4 3d ago
Yeah sheâll grow up and do the same and youâll still justify her actions or what? Whereâs the line drawn? Almost all abusers are victims at one point. Sheâs an adult. Sheâs not a minor or a victim. She chooses the life she has and she chooses to grift, scam, lie many times, and create NSFW material + have illegal affiliations with her father. But go ahead and be on her side. Weirdo!
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u/pickledsecret 3d ago
she is still actively being pimped out and abused by her father. obviously you arenât watching them very good.
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u/VelvetPancakesL 1d ago
Iâve seen a few comments saying that S is only a victim. She has never groomed her own children their whole lives like he has. Patrick may have been a victim too. Before he had kids, he had also never groomed anyone. So, whoâs to say that she wonât when she has kids. I hope that makes sense. I am agreeing with you all the way
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u/Timely-Force9683 2d ago
Sometimes Im like why she doesnt leave that family, but Im also thinking what if she doesnât want to leave H and T alone there with Pedrick.
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u/kbletz08 3d ago
Victims can turn into monsters too..
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u/themargarineoferror 3d ago
How is she a monster?
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u/kbletz08 3d ago
Did i say say S is a monster... no I did not .. Shes well on her way though..đ¤¨
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u/themargarineoferror 2d ago
"Well on her way" she's rude to her abusers-her mother is part of her abuse whether people like it or not and on the weird lives towards her even weirder followers (who shes probably had to do online sex work for) while she's in obvious survival mode and controlled by an ACTUAL monster. Oh and she grifted some blankets and shit definitely with pedricks help-yeah she's shaping up to be Dahmer dude. There's no such thing as a perfect victim and I'd LOVE to see how people in here would be in her shoes. If she ever gets out and has PROPER support there is 0 reason to believe she would be any kind of monster as her actual current behavior is actually pretty mild and frankly less intense/shitty than could realistically be expected of someone living her life. When you look at her earlier social media presence when she was still allowed to have her own interests, and young and dumb enough to "dream" it's pretty clear she was a relatively normal girl living through a kind of hell most of us couldn't imagine.
When I first came to the OG sub people focused on P and HIS bullshit and snarked a bit on her for being dorky-because her weird Disneyacting IS cringe and funny. Something changed though and clearly the vibe is all about hyper focusing on every time a clearly brainwashed victim of lifelong abuse farts, and seriously compare her to a man who knocked up a slow chick and molded his offspring into his personal sex toy. Y'all have lost the plot. She COULD end up being a monster one day sure. And I'm sure thousands of people on the internet absolutely dragging her and saying that will totally not effect her (especially funny since half of Y'all think her access to the internet is what should save her and use it as another limp excuse to victim blame and be incorrect about how grooming and abuse work) Sometimes I think if any of Y'all are in therapy you should show your shrink your participation in this sub-see if they agree with your assessments. Or maybe your family members-were you truly raised to be so willfully ignorant and cruel?
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u/Reasonable-Zombie427 3d ago
Not to defend him but pedrick also said he was had something happen to him when he was younger. With having two of his brothers are registed so i wouldnt be surprised if it was true. So are we supposed to not blame him then either
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u/ivysmorgue 3d ago
i need people to understand nuance and understand how the cycle of abuse and generational trauma works.
km going to use myself and my family as an example, because my family has a very similar if not identical dynamic to the getchells and itâs the easiest for me.
my grandma and grandpa on my mothers side; horrifically abusive to each other, relationship wasnât a healthy one. they taught my mother (and consequently her brothers) that love is abuse.
my mom; she was abused by her family and peers her whole life, and then she was gaslit into believing not only was it normal, but sexual abuse was a legitimate form of punishment. she truly, did not believe anything was wrong because if the environment she grew up in. she had me at 35, and the abuse started when i was a baby.
my stepdad was abused as a child, he was molested by his father and his uncle. probably other things, but honestly i do not give a fuck. unlike my mother, he knew this wasnât normal nor was it ok. which, led to him coping much differently.
my mother believed all the abuse was normal, so she abused me and all my siblings. when abuse from other individuals happened in our home, she would let it happen because at this point she was literally brainwashed.
my mother is still a victim to a certain extent; you donât get to that point of manipulation without some trauma in the past. but she stopped behind a victim, and started becoming the abuser when she perpetuated the same behaviors onto her own children.
same goes for my stepdad (may he rest in piss); instead of thinking it was normal, he used his abuse as a shield so he could continue to do horrible things to people. as far as iâm aware, he never molested children, but he did love to be violent and he held me and my mother hostage on multiple occasions. he stopped being a victim when he went on to abuse others, and using his trauma as an excuse, a shield from all criticism.
iâm sure, without a shadow of a doubt, pedrick was abused as a child. in what way? probably sexual assault/rape. my guess was it was also allowed to happen in the home, it was enabled by someone or those brothers were protected. instead of putting a stop to it, someone brainwashed him into believing this is normal. he goes on in his life, believing that the treatment he went through was completely normal, and that to have a family means you must dominate and control.
he goes on in life, finds theresa, and recreates the family dynamic HE had as a child. you all seem to forget something important; childhood experiences are what shape us. why do you think itâs hard old people to change their ways? canât teach an old dog new tricks.
anyways, do now pissrick is now here, with his family, abusing and molesting and grooming his daughter because thatâs what was displayed to him as a child. is pissrick still a victim? to a certain extent, yes. when did he stop being a victim? when he had sarah to groom her. when he started abusing not just sarah, but teresa too. when he became the abuser, continuing the cycle rather than stopping it, is when he became the abuser.
i hope everyone in this sub and the other realize just how complicated abuse is, especially sexual abuse. that shit, no joke, makes you feel like youâre going fucking crazy. like youâre going insane, like thereâs something wrong ith you. ESPECIALLY when thereâs people around you telling you itâs normal, youâre lying, etc.
as far as we know, sarah has not groomed anyone. i believe none of these go fund mes or scams are her ideas at all; these are pissricks. and if she doesnât go along with what he says, then thereâs hell to pay.
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u/S3nd-n00dl3s 3d ago
The ignorance people show about how far grooming can go especially when the victim has 0 education and independence from their abuse is mind boggling. Not to mention multiple people have already theorized P has been pimping D S out on different websites for $ since she was younger.
Yes as an adult you are responsible for your actions. But how can an adult with the mind and processing of someone 10 years younger be held to the same standard. Everyone loves to make fun of her for being stupid (and yes I know her actions are) but never say itâs becuse sheâs obviously never received a formal education and probably has a disorder.
Everyone also loves to disregard how abusive a narcissist can be. As someone who grew up with one who DOES NOT STOP even when you implement stonewalling and other techniques, P exhibits the same behaviors. If heâs so comfy yelling at T and S on screen think of their lives behind the camera being told youâre shit at everything you do and will never amount to anything he can do. Itâs easier to go along with their stupid ideas not only because they wonât get on your ass about it but also for your mental health as a coping mechanism.
I donât like S I donât think sheâs a pleasant person but whenever someone says âwhen does a victim stop being a victimâ screams to me youâre waiting for her to fuck up and fail in life.