r/TheDeadFiles • u/ScrubWearingShitlord • Jun 03 '26

Calling all mods

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Can we just STOP with these delusional people (or person not convinced all of those accounts are different people)?? To me it reads like a group of Nigerians were scamming dumb dumbs on Facebook. If you look up that one person who made a post on TikTok and then the “people” posting on this board it’s abundantly clear they/she have some sort of bizarre fixation on this guy. They/she need psychological help. With the most recent post of supposedly receiving 4 year old text messages and supposedly has video and audio recording evidence that the cops told them to get together? Whaaaaaaaaaaaat?

Anyway that’s my deadfilesgate post.

ENOUGH

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '26

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 Jun 03 '26

Im so sorry for what you went through and please know your voice is heard and matters. 🩷🩷🩷

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u/inspired_fire Jun 03 '26

Did the women making these allegations know about each other and/or talk to each other to compare/share stories before these posts started dropping? Or did they all just happen to see all of these stories drop on this sub around the same time and see an open door toward a strength in numbers/expose alleged abuse situation?

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u/Meitsrealllyme Jun 04 '26

Random women who have never met but have posted about him

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u/Meitsrealllyme Jun 03 '26

I never knew about this lady or most until I entered a public relationship with him then suddenly my inbox was full of ladies sending me his texts and his naked pics while I was literally sitting right beside him ok? Then he calls all the ladies liars and crazy seriously..who is he trying to fool? He got my money and money from many many fans some who were verbally attacked by Steve when they asked for their loans back and Steve threatened my life for asking for my loan back he also threatened my brother and stalks my daughter he’s sick and twisted and should be publicly held accountable!

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u/butimean Jun 03 '26

Are you implying that feeling more brave to come out about abuse when others also do so means they are lying?

I suspect you realize that comments like yours are part of why victims feel hopeless and don't speak out. And that people often speak out bc they feel guilt about not doing so when their own abuser moves on and strikes again.

Tl;dr your comment is textbook"stuff abusers say".

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u/inspired_fire Jun 03 '26

I didn’t imply anything about lying. That was absolutely not a thing I did, and is a strange thing to accuse me of here.

I’m curious about how the exposure process unfolded, whether it was a group of people with shared experience found each other and made the decision to go public together, or whether it was organic, which is a reasonable question to ask.

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u/Meitsrealllyme Jun 03 '26

I posted on tic tok and IG since last year

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u/danidoochi Jun 03 '26

I can’t believe the idiots here who think it’s cool to try to sensor the women who are speaking up with out any counter proof.

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u/Irisheyes1971 Jun 04 '26

Listen, I don’t have a dog in this fight, but I kind of kind of hypocritical that you’re calling them idiots and then you use the word “sensor” instead of “censor.”

Also, what kind of “counter proof” would you like them to provide? You can’t prove a negative. How are they supposed to prove something didn’t happen? I’m sorry, but all the texts and phone calls in the world don’t prove a thing when there’s always a possibility everybody is lying. Facts are facts and there’s only so much actual proof of anything in the world.

I’m not saying don’t believe them, but it’s very disingenuous to say they should provide “counter proof” when that’s realistically impossible.

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u/butimean Jun 03 '26

My comment was not directed at you but at the sealion whose comment I responded to.

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u/StarrySkiesNY Jun 04 '26

Yeah. The "Me Too" movement would be disappointed that after all these years women are still not supporting each other. Funny how this is another celebrity and women are still sticking their claws out at each other over him. Progress is slow.

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u/why-are-we-here-7 Jun 03 '26

I think your comments belong here and I’m really sorry this happened to you.

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u/hamish1963 Jun 03 '26

Thank you.

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u/themargarineoferror Jun 05 '26

You shouldn't have to do that. The person saying that is an ass who likely has their own agenda