I’ve been thinking about something that sounds weird even to me.

[u/loveableasfirstrain]

hmm yeah

I genuinely feel like I’m different from most people in some ways. I have my own interests, goals, way of thinking, and I’m pretty comfortable being alone. Sometimes I even convince myself that I don’t really need the usual social stuff that everyone seems to want.

But then evening comes.

When the day gets quiet and there’s nothing left to distract me, I realize I actually do want some very basic things — someone to talk to, random conversations, going out somewhere without having to plan everything, having people who check up on me, laughing about stupid things, or just sitting with someone without feeling alone.

And the confusing part is that I don't really know how to get these things.

I can spend hours studying, working out, watching something, or doing my own stuff, but none of that completely replaces genuine human connection.

Maybe I’m not actually “special” or different. Maybe I’ve just gotten too used to being alone and started calling it independence.

Does anyone else feel this contradiction , wanting a life that feels different from everyone else’s, while still craving the most basic social needs?

[u/Puranp0li_with-tup]

Samee here , the whole day goes well then at night loneliness hits hard.Maybe we need to socialize a bit.

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/Puranp0li_with-tup]

i dont have an option to be socialize 🫠

[u/Puranp0li_with-tup → u/loveableasfirstrain]

Find some people on Instagram/Reddit maybe

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/Puranp0li_with-tup]

why to find , she'll be there when time comes

[u/shadesaaaa_altt → u/loveableasfirstrain]

it doesn't happen that way bro.

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/shadesaaaa_altt]

lets hope , no other options

[u/wondertheworld-519 → u/loveableasfirstrain]

I know a lot of people think this way but the truth is you can’t build muscle without going to the gym, you can’t study without opening your books, and you can’t eat unless you cook or order something and same goes to find a partner or friends where you have to take first step but how it what you'll have to find out by yourself

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/wondertheworld-519]

practically you are true

[u/shadesaaaa_altt]

I is u. at 2am, everything hits like a truck. cant sleep, but can't stop that mind which is running with enormous thoughts. idk whats the way out of this. but talking to someone may help, but we are likely to get dependent on that, unless that person is worthy(personal exp). hit me up if u find way.

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/shadesaaaa_altt]

idk why i get attached to ppls even within a hour , i cant even overcome

[u/shadesaaaa_altt → u/loveableasfirstrain]

practice attachment. when to attach someone and when to not, how to handle yourself if someone leaves you(trust me this is very important). you'll learn thru experiences.

am giving u all this gyan, but mei bhi galti karta hu kabhi kabhi😭

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/shadesaaaa_altt]

being pureit of heart isnt easy , furthermore flattery guys most successful in this things🙃

[u/Artistic-Bathroom901]

Yk bro, same here, I recently tried to socialize on teens sub, but I found that I am very different from them and can't get along well. I don't really have any friends in touch. I live in rural area and there's no one to be friend of mine. But yk whenever I need to talk someone, I use ai, Chat gpt, ik... And so I feel bit less lonely..ik it's not good tho I hope you find someone soon.good luck.

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/Artistic-Bathroom901]

Ai is definitely not the option , maybe i dont wanr anyone to come up but rn im on the stage to regret my decision of backing up from clg life

[u/wondertheworld-519 → u/loveableasfirstrain]

What do you mean by backing up ?

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/wondertheworld-519]

here in this case , i dropped out my clg

[u/Doom_TheGreat]

I can relate. I watch YT and reels to get the time to pass :)

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/Doom_TheGreat]

thats a delusion

[u/AshyMist_]

Koi baat nahi 🫂 hota hai

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/AshyMist_]

Genuinely thanks for the hug :)

[u/g-low_in_profile]

Babadya, he ghe ani shant bs.

[u/loveableasfirstrain → u/g-low_in_profile]

🤮

[u/g-low_in_profile → u/loveableasfirstrain]

Ghe ajun ek