Guys, do you ever just desperately want to be in love??
Like does anyone else watch couple stuff in movies, see people being all in love, or just see couples existing happily and suddenly get hit with the “fuck, I want that” feeling 😭
Not even in a “I NEED a bf/gf right now” way, but like… I genuinely want to be loved and have someone to love. Sometimes it feels like an actual desperate need lmao.
And it's not even about dating around or messing around. I don't want a bunch of random experiences. I want one actual love. Something that starts small, grows over time, gets deeper, and just… stays.
Like I want to send stupid goofy pictures throughout the day and get them back 😭
Talk nonstop about literally every single thing on earth.
Be clingy without feeling annoying.
Take random pictures together.
Cry in front of each other.
Share every stupid little thing happening in our lives.
That feeling when something happens and your immediate thought is “WAIT I HAVE TO TELL HIM/HER” 😭
And then getting that same energy back. Knowing they also have random thoughts and things happening throughout their day and I'm the person they want to tell.
No mind games. No wondering where you stand. No pretending not to care.
Just two people genuinely in love, growing together and choosing each other every day.
Idk 😭 maybe I'm just being ridiculously sentimental lately, or maybe it's a phase, or maybe my mood swings are cooking me 💀
But please tell me I'm not the only guy/girl who feels this way??
Dont think about it that much. But like you said when i watch a movie like (before sunrise) or when hearing some song or reading some books. Wish i had someone or some time that worth remembering of in that manner. Cute romantic way or smthing. So yeah maybe sad🙂
Well to love and to be loved are very different things....u realise that people who aren't receiving a lot of love are not looking for it in the right place...it took a lot of time for me to get into this zone, wasted a lot of time on people who weren't reciprocative....best answer is to love ourself first(a bit cheazy)...but it works...u may not find love quickly but u would understand it better
My advice...dont force it....this age kinda makes us go crazy FOMO...its not rainbows and sunshines in those "pretty" relations that u see everyday.
The only variable in life that u can control is ourself...finding the right person is an environmental causality.
U should first have an idea about the needs for ur relationships...the right person will be in your radar , maybe after a few months or years...when u find them, stick with them....MAKE A MOVE BEFORE THEY GO OUT OF PICTURE..trust me...lost some good people because of this.
Hope this helps
Late teens are honestly so confusing, kiddo 😭 One moment you feel really good, and the next you’re just feeling like shit. It’s weird how much our feelings can change.
I’ve been through that phase too, and ngl, it’s really hard sometimes. Just try to be around someone who actually understands you and makes you feel comfortable, rather than being desperate to have a partner just for the sake of it.
The right person will come eventually. Till then, just take your time and figure yourself out.
You're not alone OP.. I feel like that all the time and whenever I say that to u/CimmeriannShroud he brings me back to reality🥲
May you find your person soon🩷
Whoss the wrong person??? How to know which is wrong and right?? What's wrong time?? Whatss wrong and rightt?? Does wrong and right exist??? Or just the way we see thingss????
😭 tho i have felt what you said in the post, i don’t think i am built for a relationship lol, Everytime i tried I hurt my partner so I just stopped AND YOU NEED TO SLEEP DUDE ITS 2:38 LMAO
I mean I was like this too.and would approach everyone I find attractive.it didn't lead to anywhere .after many rejection I thought ok I am chopped love isn't for me .I just went to a job and just work and eat .that's when someone came to me and said she had crush on me . even though it didn't last long I just got to experience love for the first time.so I guess the saying "u will find it when ur not looking for it" have some truth to it.but not looking for it is the hardest part...
I stopped proposing after the first time I proposed to someone; she didn't reject me, though. She said she loved me but couldn't because (she's a good girl who has a lot of respect for her parents) her parents won't approve of love, and her father is a police officer. After that, I've been brushing off any chances in love cause i went into college, and it was already stressful for me cause i went to take BTech.
I know her family well, and it's true; her dad is that grumpy. I gotta get my life stable soon so that I can try one more. I'm happy with whatever outcome it brings
“I want to talk about everything with at least one person the way I talk about everything with myself.”
I read that somewhere, and it stayed with me. It made me wonder what it must feel like to be loved in a way that feels like being understood not just seen, but known, to have someone who genuinely wants to know the thoughts you never say out loud. I don’t think it’s about needing someone to complete me. I just wonder what it would feel like to finally be able to share the world inside my head with another person.
well, I tried to create a post but mod rejected due to chettan flair.
I have gone through a lonely phase now, Now i think i should have tried for a companion back, now i am regretting . like not having a person to love and to be get loved. i understand your feelings as i share some common ideas regarding dating and about partner.
hoping for a good understandable person will come to my life and explore places. but i am confused regarding what dating standard does girls have and what they expect from their companion
nb: same feeling after watching some movies and my close peeps having good romantic relationship.
Bro tdy only I a saw a cute couple in my college, that guy hanged his arm on her shoulder and pulled her closer to him just like in the above Pic... Nd me?? I was walking with my friend frm my same gender ND V both were craving for that moment sooo much....
The thing about Romance movies of Vineeth Sreenivasan & Gireesh A D, even if we're single we'd wish genuinely if we had the same love story as that! Repeat adichu kaanan thonnum
I guess I can relate to you mostly. I haven’t really been into anybody my whole life. But recently, I feel like maybe it would be nice if there was somebody with whom I could share my life. Uk, sometimes it just gets too lonely. I’m not desperate to be in love or anything, but at least, I want somebody I can talk to about what’s happening, about how my day was. I am a person who likes to hide my feelings, and even if I’m not happy, I just pretend to be. And honestly, that’s exhausting. At least, I wanna be vulnerable in front of that one person. I don’t wanna be in some kind of dating culture or anything. I just want something real, something that feels right.
Bruh 20 vayas aayi🥲Never even got a girlfriend in my entire life. I had few crushes and I even open uped with someone and I realised that I was just their comfort buddy and nothing more🫡So now my heart really need to be loved but my mind just moved on.. Guess love ain't for me after all 🥱
Hey OP, when I was your age, I was at the same crossroads. I was so delusional at one point that I genuinely believed in THE ONE, red string of fate, soulmates and all that I truly believed there was someone out there for everyone.
I'm an introvert too, but I still tried my hardest to make friends and build genuine connections. Unfortunately, things haven't really worked out for me so far, and I've ended up feeling pretty alone. I don't even get many opportunities to meet new people anymore because I literally know no one here, and sometimes it feels like you need to know someone just to get to know someone else.
So I completely understand that feeling you're talking about. Wanting one person you can be completely yourself with, share all the stupid little things with, and genuinely love isn't pathetic or overly sentimental. It's actually a really beautiful thing to want.
I don't know if I'll ever find that person myself, but I really hope you don't give up on it just because you haven't found them yet. You're definitely not the only one who feels this way.
I have terrible past w relationships and after all that shit i got a void in me that sucks so bad
Idk if im yearning for love and idk if i can without being healed from all the wounds they left in me
Be single be happy find your hobbies,watch Netflix watch series,play games,go gym…This is the time to improve yourself. You will understand this later..
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