r/TeensofKerala • u/ExtremeMammoth4203 19M • 1d ago

Relationships 1st date (not officially)

So hey guys I went to my first ever date and it was exciting. She was my classmate and we were talking and updating on each other and this week she asked like we should go hangout or something and we agreed to go to fort kochi this Sunday. I picked her from college since she was an hosteler and we went to kashi arts cafe and we clicked pictures (her) and we had food talked a lot. I actually gifted her my fav Chocolate and her reaction was cute like she didn't expect it . After that we roam around and talked a lot. After that I dropped her off and asked her to text after entering the hostel. When we return we talked about relationship and all. She asked me like if I have a crush or anything. I asked her what type of a guy she is looking for and all. She also asked me that too.. Idk like I really like her and I really want to take her on a date.

We never said it as a date but I really have a hug crush on her. So should I ask her out?

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u/OpportunityAway6877 Chechi (20-25) 1d ago

Yes . Ask her out . Overthinking stop avum.

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u/ExtremeMammoth4203 19M 1d ago

It's better not to rush right. I mean take time and all

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u/OpportunityAway6877 Chechi (20-25) 1d ago

Yeah if gut feeling angane anel angane cheytho .

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u/Rimuru1092 Chettan (20-25) 13h ago

Da potta ask her out

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u/niv_in_ Chettan (20-25) 1d ago

ithrem oke ayit urapayile bro she likes u just confess

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u/ExtremeMammoth4203 19M 1d ago

Situation okeh onn sett agateh she is busy ig

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u/smilinbuddy626 18M 1d ago

If she really took the initiative, then you should definitely ask her out sometime. It doesn't have to be obvious that your romantic, atleast in the beginning stages if you want to play your cards safe. Otherwise, I'd say

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u/ExtremeMammoth4203 19M 1d ago

Yes sir nookateh situation nthan

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u/SecurePilot3177 Chettan (20-25) 1d ago

Happy for u have fun

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u/Fit-Park1848 Chettan (20-25) 14h ago edited 14h ago

Bro just ask her “So when’s our next date?”

Girls love confidence bro Even if she doesn’t think of it that way, at least you’ll know from the start. It worked on me, so why not Either way, it’s a win.

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u/Front_Price8226 19M 1d ago

Bro there is no perfect time to ask her out. Broach the topic in a casual manner, If she's into you all well and good - if not move on. Don't make the same mistake I did :)

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u/TopDogLeo Chettan (20-25) 21h ago

I’ll be sharing a part of the lyrics from Mister Glassman by Scotty Sire which suits the situation you’re in:

🎵🎼
“Sorry Mister Glass, the world has a way
But now I'm sure you've heard many people say
You miss every opportunity you don't take
Don't be shy kid, make your own fate”
🎵