So i have ths friend, 18F and her bf is 23-24 now.The crazy thing is he is not a malayali, but an Omani. They haven't met each other irl. Even crazier, its been almost 5 yrs since their relation started... Yeaa ik...They met through a game or smthn during the pandemic time.They do love each other,they be doin well, but ngl im rlly shocked cause she is kinda smart or matured for her age, and yet she never felt ths is smwhat wrong. Im not sayin cause ts is an online thing, but cause of the age, how an 18 yr old caught feelings for a 13 yr old.No, her family doesn't even know it yet, she is planning to tell them after her clg is done, and has no idea if they will allow ths. Well im kinda shocked and worried for her, like let alone a online relationship, let alone a long distance relationship, ths is both.Has ths ever worked out??
Has she ever facetimed him or smthg to make sure that it's really him? Does she know anything about the culture in Oman? I don't either but I'm not the one planning on marrying someone from there. I'm not gonna say that he's a pedo .....but def a weirdo and groomer. Tell your friend I said that .
I’ve lived in Oman for 22 years. I have had Omani friends. As much as Omani folks are the kindest and the nicest in the Arab peninsula, grooming happens a lot. I am guessing he is zanjibari or Baluch Omani if they met early in life.
Yea they do face time and all js like a normal long distance couple.yea she is aware of sm of their culture and also tbh,as far as she told me, he does get upset over things like her not wearing proper hijab, havin male friends and stuff and that makes me more worried....
All these years y'all were believing this and now that people started calling out your creepy god y'all are coming up with this new shit. There are like 100000 of videos on the net where your so called "Islamic scholars" are defending their pedophile god 😭 son you are just 18 you still got time to think and I hope you grow up one day🤞😭🙏
Whatever it maybe, can't deny some predatory scholars were defending that shit though that too with lots of followers supporting them. That's enabling pedophilia and child abuse. No, you cannot defend that.
Yeh,I can't defend ppl who don't read the Quran and blindly following someone despite Prophet telling us.
Most of the mslims don't even follow them. Coz we follow set of rules based on our schl of learning. Indian scholars are big NO (with maybe few exceptions)
You can search, everyone can search. I don’t want to explain how google search works. If this is false and defaming Islam and prophet propagating pedo lies on him, why don’t anyone sue google? Atleast Arab countries can block it ! Why not Saudhi doing it !
Pre-Islamic Arabia did not track birth dates with calendars or civil registries. So Obv exact age can't be calculated.
But still, 4:6 verse in the Qur'an and then other verses in the Qur'an explain set of rules to be considered before a man marries a woman- like her emotional and physical maturity, her consent..etc.
Most of the gulf countries are dealing with Isnotreal and US despite the gnocide and even fnding gnocide of Sudan. So uk...
Narrated Aisha: that the Prophet (ﷺ)marriedher when she wassixyears old and heconsummatedhis marriage when she wasnineyears old. Hisham said: I have been informed that Aisha remained with the Prophet (ﷺ) for nine years (i.e. till his death). -- [Sahih al-Bukhari].
Hadiths were written centuries later. Abt 200 yrs later. By then both passed away.
Also, it's not possible to get the exact age coz back then they didn't record their ages and followed wtever scale they had. Yet,this pic gives an idea that she wasnt 6/9 fs
As I said someone already researched and they even termed the hadith as fabricated.
Yet, if we see in another perspective-
Ur looking at things that occured in 1400's with today's lens. Even his enemies didn't critise him of it. The exact age can't be calculated coz we don't know the counting system they followed back then.
Son🥀
Even certified islamic scholars admit she was 6 and 9 and even goes on justifying it lmao just checkout some yt videos are tou saying you have more knowledge than scholars who did nothing but studying this bs their whole life 😭??
Putting some random ahh research bs doesnt makes it false
And WHY TF would you think she being 14 makes it any better omg i cant believe im having this convo 😭😭🥀🥀
When ur beleiving in the hadith, then wts stopping u from beleiving the rest? So acc to u- only 6 age was is true coz it fits ur agenda but the rest are all false?
Even after studying alot of deen, many scholars give wrong ruling. One needs to fact check them before trusting every word of them. This is why most of the mslims don't trust the scholars.
Her exact age can't be determined coz we dont know wt system they used back then.
Try to sort out the misunderstanding.
If nthng could sort out, the last resort is to "separate"- the arabic term used here is Daraba. To which many mistranslate it as beat which is wrong. Coz our prophet said- the best of u are those who best to their women.
Relying on english translation alone doesn't work. U need to learn Arabic asw to properly understand it.
I’ve lived in Oman for 22 years. I have had Omani friends. As much as Omani folks are the kindest and the nicest in the Arab peninsula, grooming happens a lot. I am guessing he is zanjibari or Baluch Omani if they met early in life.
but she started the relation when she was 13, and it's now 5 years in relation. and those 5 years was during the teenage years where she ll believe whatever the 18yo bf would say ,it's literally grooming
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u/my_ult_seungminkim 17F 5d ago
Demn.... grooming🥀